my boyfriend told me a while ago that he liked another girl. is this right? he said he would not leave me for her but that he thought she was hot.
2007-01-11 18:08:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should leave him. that isnt right. thats mean. how can he like u AND someone elsE? dump his butt
2007-01-11 18:13:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to find someone other than your gf/bf attractive. However, if you care about someone, the last thing you'd want is to hurt him/her.
So your boyfriend is being a major j e r k by making you feel bad by saying that he thinks another girl is hot. He should have kept it to himself.
Thing is, did you ask him what he thinks? If you don't like the honest answer, you shouldn't have asked him. But if he volunteered the info without you asking the question, then he's very insensitive.
2007-01-12 02:17:44 · answer #2 · answered by ladyluck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Friend God made man with lots of desires inside him which make him weak and this is one of the top weakness, generally you can say there are two types 1st one just says to make his GF jealous and the 2nd one says while in cool mood but he really intends of it. but if he is saying it in front of you means he is the 1st type then u don't worry just try to figure it out what are his likes about a perfect girl according to him and then try to fit ur frame in it and u can get it right
2007-01-12 02:26:01 · answer #3 · answered by Sameer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can take a man out of the dating pool, but you can't take away his attraction. A good relationship is based on honesty, and while it may seem weird to be honest about that sort of thing, but it's better than him keeping it all pent up. the fact he shared that with you shows you don't need to worry about him. Be happy that your relationship is built on trust -that's enviable!
2007-01-12 02:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by halie_blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Today, that are somethings being forgotten by a vast majority of people: faithfulness and loyalty. More than 75% of marriages in the US today are either divorced or ant to but can't because of religion or finances. Please don't do that. You're wither an adult now or are going to be an adult later. Either way, it will lead to marriage. Please, don't make the statistics worse. Please, man. Don't do this to us men. The 75% are already making us look bad...
2007-01-12 02:34:38 · answer #5 · answered by RedStarYellowSun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he should've kept that to himself or between him and his buddies. But even in a relationship sometimes the person your are with and even you may find someone else attractive. It does not necessarily mean that they are going to stray, if they do that's when you say bye.
2007-01-12 02:14:03 · answer #6 · answered by primamaria04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would send up warning flags to me.. I mean it's normal for guys to check out other girls whether they're taken or not.. but be careful he doesn't act on it
2007-01-12 02:12:53 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know, my boyfriend did that to me (not who i'm with now) & i think i respected him more for being honest with me but that didn't change the fact that it hurt. i think it's up to you & how you feel. it's ok to be angry at him for saying that to you. sometimes what we don't know really wont hurt us!!
2007-01-12 02:15:42 · answer #8 · answered by stevieglenwright 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
deffinately not cool.If he loves you and is completely satisfied with you, he would not even be looking.I would straight up ask him why he was looking at her in that way anyway.
2007-01-12 02:14:00 · answer #9 · answered by Autumn73 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fine as long as he doesn't act on it! He was honest! If he does act on it, look me up! hehe
2007-01-12 02:13:52 · answer #10 · answered by Silver Surfer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋