I feel like my baby's father caused my miscarriage he was abusive
2007-01-11 18:05:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
My dear, there are many things that can cause a miscarriage, but the more important question is why you put up with it? No matter what or how many people try to give you advice, you need to decide for yourself, do you respect and value yourself enough to understand you should'nt be with someone who hits you?
2007-01-11 18:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was physical abuse then it probably was to blame. Emotional abuse can cause just as much harm. Make sure you don't get pregnant with this man again. Probably lucky your baby was not born into a life with a father like that. Sorry wasn't trying to offend.
2007-01-11 20:26:19 · answer #2 · answered by Mishell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is abusive to you to the point of you questioning the reason for your miscarriage, he doesn't deserve you or a child. You need to leave immediately. If your fears are true, it could only be a matter of time before....
2007-01-11 18:12:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in an abusive relationship, you need to get out. Then you can begin the process of putting your life together and healing from the loss of your pregnancy. You can call the National Domestic Violence Hotline for assistance in finding ways to get out. The phone number is 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) and that number is free to call from any phone.
2007-01-11 18:19:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is normal to blame other people. Mothers blame their babies if the dad is someone that makes her life miserable. Blame is common and often just a deflection.. He may have pushed you and you fell on your big stomach? It may have happened anyway... but next time.. get pregnant without him.. for your next pregnancy.. I think a low stress environment will help you carry your baby better. But as for blaming him, that is noraml, even if it wasn't his fautl... we always need a reason, a place to point a finger. It is a coping tecnique. I am sorry this happended to you
2007-01-11 18:15:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Than leave him, no offense but if he is abusive than it is probably better that you miscarried, you really don't want to bring a baby into that kind of situation/life.
2007-01-11 18:09:55 · answer #6 · answered by mdoud01 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And staying with him had nothing to do with enabling him to be abusive to you. Two wrongs do not make one right. Are you still with him? If so, then it will happen again.
2007-01-11 18:09:27 · answer #7 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
leave him he is not worth it.
2007-01-11 18:17:07 · answer #8 · answered by Jmusic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋