its been over a month already and still i think about him and how he chose some other girl instead of me. we never really "dated", more like "hung out". i remember how we held hands and took a walk in the moonlight together the last time we saw each other and i cant stop thinking how he chose another girl to be with....
2007-01-11 18:03:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
move on. think about it, is he thinking about you right now? hell no. so why should you?
2007-01-11 18:11:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is get active again. Staying at home and moping over someone you never had is a waste of time, you need to wake up each day with the thought “he has missed a chance at a really wonderful person- but that’s his loss.” Call all your friends and plan to go out this weekend, or you can even stay I with them and rent and movie and order pizza if you are not yet ready for a night life. What ever you do make sure that you are alone. Besides you never know he may not work out with the other chick and he might wake up and realize that you are the girl for him, so if that happens you don’t want to look all haggard cause you’ve spent weeks moping over him. You will want to look great, so that he knows that he made the right decision coming back to you!!
Regardless make sure that you take care of the number one person in you life… you!! Don’t be too down over this. When one door shut another opens, now go find that other door!! ;-D
Peace
2007-01-12 02:23:43 · answer #2 · answered by Girl love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rejection's never easy, I've had times where I just don't feel like eating I was so sick to my stomach. But the important thing to remember is that there are so many people out there, and that every individual has something different about them from everyone else that you'll either hate or love, so don't get hung up on one person. I know it's a little hokey optimism, but life is better that way.
2007-01-12 02:13:28 · answer #3 · answered by Packin it up 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that hun...
First.. you need to focus in get back to reality and move on. Second think inside you "What he really that great? ..think on his negative stuff or inperfections" so it help u forget. Third. Aparently he was not smart enough to choose u so.. HIS LOST, he is not worth it. Fourth there is sooo many amazing people outhere you just have to find tem., dont waste u time thinking on the past, he is definitely not worth it..dont hurt yourself no more.
The purpose in life is to be happy..is not fair he is happy" and you are not" Go date other people and find your own happiness. You will find someone who will know how to treat you and appreciate what a wonderful person you are. and have SOMETHING SPECIAL & REAL.
Dont get desperate I felt same way in the past, the days will go by and help you heal, go out with your friends, keep yourself busy in the gym and with activities.
You may even find a special"someone doing those activities!!, joint a online dating service etc...chat with people...You will find someone sooner that what you are thinking and will then think back: how dump I was in the past...this is the Real thing." good luck to ya! I hope my advice help u hun..:)
2007-01-12 02:18:06 · answer #4 · answered by zweetangel23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Pride is hurt. You are probably mad because you might have been intimate and you feel used. That is normal just learn a lesson from it. There are some nice guys out there. Find one that will be there for you and be good to you. Don't sit and wait on Prince because he probably will be dumping girls left and right. He sounds like he might be a player. Get yourself a new outfit and go out with friends. You'll feel better. Good Luck!
2007-01-12 02:15:00 · answer #5 · answered by holliemay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG i've been in this situation except he chose one of my best friends over me and god that hurt a lot but theres nothing u can do rly i think its best to loo around and find someone else its what i did and its hard at first but after a while u get over him and realise he cud of had u but he didnt want u so find someone who wants u and u want him coz that guy is so much better than this one
2007-01-12 02:10:13 · answer #6 · answered by Tam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two options: 1) Pleasure yourself repeatedly while thinking about him. 2) Stab his girlfriend and confess your love in a crying, mascara running tyrade that ends with you in a fetal position sobbing, "I just wanted to love you. I just wanted to love you. 3) Find an arab man so he knows you found someone with a man unit so much larger than his that you will never think of him again.
They each have consequences. For 1 you will not do any real good and it's kinda gross, for 2 you'd be arrested and appear pathetic, and 3 you would never be able to go back to non-Arabs again, and be forced to date exclusivel Arab.
2007-01-12 02:10:05 · answer #7 · answered by Sammer (Jim W) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*hugs* from personal experience, i know this is not an easy task... Even when you both have not dated, you feel as if you belong... and you know you were suitable, and you felt it is just before he asks you out...
it took a lot of effort and hard work, conscious effort to 'get better'. I always have to want to get better, get over it, move on...
it takes time... but with effort and deterination, you can forget him and move on with your life... *hugs* good luck... all the best..
2007-01-12 02:16:54 · answer #8 · answered by Meela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop thinkin about him and start findin someone else
he doesn't even deserves u because u r 2 good 4 him
forget him. there's bunch of guys u goin 2 meet in ur life
2007-01-12 02:19:42 · answer #9 · answered by xi xi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is so sad... i'm in the same situation. well, almost. he chose his girlfriend over me. i'm still not over him. but how i got over past relationships? be with friends, keep yourself busy, find a new love. that's what i did. still painful though when the thought of him crosses your mind. time heals. it's a lame cliche but true.
2007-01-12 02:10:58 · answer #10 · answered by Gel G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the reason you are stuck and cant forget is that you had him in your heart as yours so the best is to stop making him centre of your thoughts then the rest will follow gradually. good luck
2007-01-12 02:10:36 · answer #11 · answered by ntu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋