And no im not gay yuk , i mean i like woman but i have no motivation to even bother getting them and i can hardly get turned on when sleeping with them its wierd i end up nobbin them for like 1-2 hours without cuming they dont complain but i am , i dont really find anyone sexually attractive ....no one turns me on lol . Also my standerds are like 8.5 + slim , brunette ya know like very hot i would rather get intimate with my hand than someone less wierd i know .
2007-01-11 18:01:08 · 19 answers · asked by badass-mofu 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ps , Thanks in advance for the negative comments its appreciated .
2007-01-11 18:01:51 · update #1
boscome - yeh i know its my problem but im asking for opinins man.
2007-01-11 18:31:56 · update #2
Queenie p - Yes i go for really hot girls and no i dont just go for looks hot woman have cool fun personalitys as well .
2007-01-12 02:44:33 · update #3
Lets put this clear...you are definitely not gay. Especially for those who answered already...to be gay, it is not just that you are less bothered about women, but you should really want to sleep with men. Which clearly in your case, you are not.
Guys hip up too much about having wild sexual drive to have sex just about anytime they see sexy in a girl..in reality, this means they are desperate and rarely get any... For a guy who is attractive, and get many offers from girls and girls are all over you...it is very natural that you become more selective or fussy. Also you may just be finding your way as to what turns you on more..maybe being in full control, maybe she being in full control, maybe sexy dress, long teasing and foreplay...it time you will know and you may already know from what you seem to like to do on your own. And sometimes, stress of work or too much chasing make you go through a cooling phase of few days to few months..this is natural - though none of your cocky friends will ever admit it. It is not macho to say, I am taking a break from sex right now!
You maybe surprised you get this advice from a gay guy..there is slap on your hand for saying gay is yuk...you would come across as more mature and more comfortable with your sexuality if you simply say: "I have nothing against gay...it is just not my thing.."
2007-01-11 23:16:13 · answer #1 · answered by Fadi S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi there,my brother is just like u,he comes to my house asking me the same question. i try and give him the best advice i can, i think the underlying reson to the way he feels is that deep down inside hes so frightend of rejection and getting hurt,you i think r the same,u might not agree with me but this is what i think,u go for the pritty slim birds that r model material because thats what u think a woman should be, have u tried going out with some one who is slightly diffrent maybe u will be suprised, if u r used to one sort of thing it becomes the norm,if u try changeing it slightly maybe it could become more interesting,im not a doctor but aint it worth a go,when u meet the right woman the passion will kick in the spark and exitment will come to and so will u(if u know what i mean) if peolpes advice on this site doesn't help maybe u should see ur doctor or some other proffesional ,good luck.
2007-01-11 21:29:24 · answer #2 · answered by wiccawoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off you should figure out what about woman turn you on. maybe make a list. plus depending on how old you are guys kind of go through a rut i've noticed between the age of 24-28. where they are more focused on there careers and sometimes woman take a backseat to it. also, try and keep an open mind, you'd be surprised how someone you never thought possible could make you so totally turned on. lastly, when having sex maybe take your time in the beginning building you and her up until you're a bout to throw her up against the wall if you don't get her. tease each other.
2007-01-11 18:12:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so basically your a tart....the glasses alone gave that away..... ever thought that there is more to a woman than they way she looks or what size she is. People like yourself - ie up your own **** - really do annoy me.
I am 26, size 20, about 17 stone, with a sex drive that most men find hard to keep up with. I am more adventurous than anyone will ever know and would more than make your bed rock......but because of my size..you wouldn't even look in my direction.....more fool you - I am not big headed - I just know what I am good at and what I am not.
so.....for a start how about you remove your head from your backside and then maybe someone will actually get the chance to tickle your pickle and turn you on.
2007-01-12 01:18:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, I enjoy relationships with both men and women....I was 18 when I had a lesbian affair and then I was honest with myself about my sexuality. Are you sure that "gay" is really "yuk" to you?
If not, you either have a naturally low sex drive, a medical problem, you could be going through a funny period, or you could naturally have a low sex drive.
I've always been very friendly with the "hand" but I prefer having someone else attached to it......
2007-01-11 21:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by Ella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not bothered, then what is the problem?
Maybe you just aren't ready to be with someone at the moment, or you havn't found the right woman to be with that rocks your boat.
I don't think you have anything to worry about. One day you will find someone that you are really into and things will be different.
All the best
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2016-10-30 21:38:07 · answer #7 · answered by barn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure that your not gay? Do you get turned on to cute guys? If not, then you just haven't found the right woman to knock you off your feet and to make you not have to use your hand. Trust me there is someone out there that you will completely lose it over.
2007-01-11 18:07:57 · answer #8 · answered by confused angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could there be an underlying problem such as a fear or mistrust of women because of what some woman has done in the past? I know my ex put me off of women for a long time.
2007-01-11 19:01:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry! Two male friends of mine have the exact same problem. Its all pyschological. All in your head! Something that happened in your life must have triggered it off. Mayb you need to talk to someone about it?! Good luck x x
2007-01-11 21:25:41 · answer #10 · answered by Dolly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋