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2007-01-11 18:02:07
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answer #1
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answered by laney45 4
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Most answers are good.
I have read some of the answers to your question. They/answers are or were probably young and at the rebellious age when they don't like their parents because they are doing things that they shouldn't be doing. They probably, at their time in life don't or didn't like themselves.
I don't know of a single mother or father that does not love their children. Most all parents would kill if they had to, in order to protect them from harm.
I have unconditional love for my children, my grandchildren and my great grandchildren. I would die for them and so would my husband.
I worked in domestic violence for 16 years. Even if the parents couldn't get along or hated each other, they loved their kids.
There is a small minority of parents for various reasons may not care enough for their children and they fit in a category of having big psychological problems, including druggies. Every society has them. That's why we have so many social workers and that's why they are so busy.
Hope I answered your question in an intelligent way.
2007-01-12 02:39:11
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answered by DeeJay 7
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YES!
But it appears NOT, most of the time! May be it is because of the anxiety of the parents who expect their children should always enjoy their future starting from their adulthood, by monitoring and controling them in their childhood!
To achieve that they try to impose discipline by force (many times, instead of advising them with reasons) when they are in their child/boyhood.
All is fare in Love and War! The love over their children makes them blind and wage day to day war in order to mend them more disciplined! The ultimate aim is to see that their children are able to stand on their own legs after two decades of hard work and sacrifice.
Unfortunately, the bad always lures the children more than the good and many children become victims. They become peers for the rest and hence the good children find it difficult to cope with the majority and try to copy or boast more than their peers by raising voice against their parents.
As the parents are quite aware about the outcome of the indisciplined behavior they start questioning, advising, threatening their children. Now, the children are caught, again, between the good parents and the bad peers. Since, the children spend most of their time with other children, effect of pressure from their peers is more than that of their parents. Finally, they start disobeying their parents good advises and take a wrong path.
Unfortunately, the turning point of ones future is decided knowingly or unknowingly when they turn 17 years of age. Those who manage to balance the pressure from their parents and their peers get away easily and get into a promising career. The rest are automatically sidelined to lower category.
When they become 20 years of age, the wisdom eyes start opening and start realising that they had missed the right boat a few years ago and now there is no point in regretting and start accepting the present and go ahead.
Meanwhile, lucky parents continue to enjoy the growth of their wards with a moderate discipline and the rest spend the rest of their life quarreling with their wards! It doesn't end over there, but it continues to the next generations as well!
So, more your parents love you, more you are kept under watch and control. Take it for granted , your parents do Love you very much like any other parents in the world.
If possible, watch 'Animal Planet' documentaries on the life of wild animals and birds. All the living beings do love their heir by imposing control on their young ones until they are ready to stand on their own.
If they can do for their chicks, the sixth sense of humen being makes them to be more cautious towards the well being of their children, No!
Sorry, a long explanation for your short question!
2007-01-12 02:50:20
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answered by Shooting stars 3
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Love for ones child is very natural. Parents definately love their children whether the children treat them good or bad. The children tend to be selfish, not all, but many of them. Once they grow up they think their parents are burnden on them. But they forget that one day they will be also treated in the same way by their children.
2007-01-13 05:17:47
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answered by nethra 2
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NO not every parent loves there children. I loved mine and there father loved them. we had 2 sons one daughter. Oldest son has a son that is 2 his Mother left him in the hospital and has never seen him since. now we find out she had 2 children older than him she did the same thing with. we also found out she has had 2 children since then. 5 kids all abandoned by there mother.
Why can people like her have babies right and left and then people that would make GREAT parents not have children.
SO THE ANSWER IS NO NOT ALL PARENTS LOVE THERE CHILDREN.
2007-01-12 03:10:24
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answered by Diane 2
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Mostly, but the love is tainted or tinted if you prefer by selfishness. True selfless love is difficult if not impossible on the materialistic planes. However, most of the parents go to great lengths to sacrifice themselves for the sake of their children, out of love and a feeling of responsibility.
Love and hate are after all two sides of the same coin! Total neglect is the worst thing that can happen and a child can survive abuse but not neglect.
Chemical changes in the body can affect emotions. For example a mother may hate her newly born child. Medicines can help such aberrations. In this particular case, Homeopathic Medicine Sepia does wonders. So love seems to be linked to chemical balance or lack of it also. People suffering from severe emotional problems may be unable to offer love to their chidlren since they themselves are in great need of help!
2007-01-12 02:19:51
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answered by Swamy 7
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I love my three children more than anything else in the world. For the sake of children everywhere I would like to believe that they are all loved by their parents. However, I know this isn't always true.
2007-01-12 03:05:04
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answered by Swim Mom 4
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yes always the parents love their children very much because they have thinking about the child always for the parents it is very hard to bring up their child in the world and the children is successful, their happiness is not explained. it can be understood when you are a parent
2007-01-12 06:23:19
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answered by sudha m 2
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That's an odd question. I'll take this opportunity to air my views on parenting.
It's a very /most difficult thing to be a parent so it should not be so easy for ppl to become parents
Parenting is not instinctive. Good parenting should be taught as the damage that a parent can do is colossal.
2007-01-12 02:12:10
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answered by Praxis 5
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I have unconditional love for my son.
I will say though that my mother was a diagnosed schizophrenic and she did some things to ruin my life that, for a while, had me believing that she never could have cared for me or her other children. Much less felt love for us. I have later come to the understanding that her true feelings were hindered by her illness.
I honestly believe there is a natural force that binds parents to their children. Though I have seen first hand that illnesses can make it seem as though that's not true.
2007-01-12 02:10:56
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answered by Anonymous
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I can tell you from being a single Father that I love my son very much. It sucks because I see parents that never say it. And saying it means just the same and showing it. Especially with kids.
2007-01-12 02:09:42
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answered by drunknfaded 3
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