Is it ok if my friend asks her girlfriend everyday every guy she talked to?...the reason he is doing this is because she had lied to him before which caused him to be insecure!
2007-01-11 17:48:50 · 23 answers · asked by hii 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oops...i meant HIS girlfriend not HER
2007-01-11 17:49:26 · update #1
What your friend's girlfriend did was not o.k. and if he can't let it go cause she lied he should do himself a favor and find someone else.
Good luck to him!
'-)
2007-01-11 17:55:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's definitely not ok. There's a possibility of a domination (non-sexual) effect growing into the relationship. There is always a stronger and weaker person in a relationship but it may grow into a bigger divide. The girlfriend should speak with the boyfriend and give him a nice long heart-felt talk to help quell his insecurities. It's difficult for me to say exactly what she should tell him, but she should definitely say things that are comforting.
Good luck to all 3 of you.
2007-01-11 17:54:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really! She should be able to talk to other guys. She should also be able to have them as friends. But she should not be overly friendly with these guys. Is he insecure because she cheated or because she lied about talking to another guy. He needs to work on liking himself and feeling more confident or he will probably lose her. If she knew he would be upset knowing she talked to another guy; she would lie to avoid the 3 hundred million insecurity questions that follow.
2007-01-11 17:55:49 · answer #3 · answered by Shelly D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, i can't imagine a woman which would tolerate that. If your friend doesn't trust her, which it doesn't seem like he does, then they probably shouldn't still be together or at least he should take a step back and decide if he does trust her before she attempts to decide if all the questioning is worth it, although i don't know your friend, thats what i would feel in that situation.
2007-01-11 17:54:18 · answer #4 · answered by Lynne. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he probably needs to ask himself if he trusts this girl or not coz he doesnt seem to if he is asking her that. Also he prob should ask himself if she's worth this much trouble. I know I wouldn't stay with a person who cheated no matter how much i liked or loved them. I dont think its stupid that he's insecure i just think that maybe going this far shows him that he doesnt trust her and if theres no trust whats the point in being with her? You should be able to trust your partner.
2007-01-11 17:58:06 · answer #5 · answered by Tam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like there is lack of trust.. If they are still together after she lied once, either trust her and lay off, or all the questions everyday because of no trust at all..And they end up hating each other.
2007-01-11 17:55:43 · answer #6 · answered by ksk_05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is being overly jealous and possessive - it is not right and does not form a good relationship. If he is insecure with his girlfriend that is HIS problem and he should break it off until he gets some more self-security.
2007-01-11 17:52:52 · answer #7 · answered by advancedmaster 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never deal with that. That's nearing ownership thought. Does he tell her every girl he talks to? The more he presses the issue, the more likely she is to be spiteful and do whatever it is that made him insecure before, and lie more.
2007-01-11 17:52:15 · answer #8 · answered by halie_blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what makes this hard is that she has lost his trust and that is something she is just going to have to deal with until she earns his trust again, that woud only make sense. It is not ok for her boyfriend to be all up in her life and not trust her but if she was not honest then yes this is normal for him to act this way.
2007-01-11 17:58:20 · answer #9 · answered by babygirlftct 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok 2 talk 2 guys, but it's not ok when his gf r flirtin or touch another guy.
I bet ur friend talks 2 girls that r his friends or someone else, as long as they keep their hands off each other
2007-01-11 17:57:39 · answer #10 · answered by xi xi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋