I have been dating a girl for a long time now. She is a virgin and I am not. She wants to save it for marriage, but I want her extremely bad. I think I have a chance but I just cant figure out how.
2007-01-11 17:48:29 · 13 answers · asked by Dr. Bradley 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I apparently forgot to mention that we are very much in love and I would do anything for her. I would never even think about raping her, so dont play that card.
2007-01-11 18:00:50 · update #1
Ok, I think that you should really respect the way she feels if you love her, if you want to have sex really bad then maybe you need to find someone who can full fill your needs. Because speaking from experince if you get her to have sex then afterwards she will feel really bad and she might keep herself from you and blame you for things that you did.But bottom line is that if you love her than you should respect that and wait. I know men who have gone through the same thing that you are going through but love kept them from pushing the issue. If you don't wait you have a chance of losing her. I hope this helps.
2007-01-11 18:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by babygirlftct 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a pest! Leave the poor girl alone. How long is a long time? Do you love her? Do you plan on being the one who marries her? If the answer to the last two questions is No then let the girl be. If you can't handle not having sex then let her go. In the future she will be happier.
2007-01-12 01:56:35 · answer #2 · answered by Chrissy #1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trying to coerce a girl into having sex with you when SHE doesn't want to only proves that you're a total loser. REAL men are patient and caring and are CONSIDERATE of the woman's choice as to what SHE does with HER body. If you try to force her into having sex that is rape and if she needs proof of your plan to rape her she CAN get a printed transcript of your message here on the boards....Once you're in prison you'll get all the sex you could ever imagine.
2007-01-12 01:54:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUde..that's not love..that's lust.. if you really love her, you can wait.. don't ask her.. just wait for the right moment..it wil just happen..and when it does, it will be like the best thing that ever happend to u and ur girlfriend... if u can't stand the fact that ur gf doesn't wna hav sex yet, then go find some1 else.. ur not in love dude... i can tell.. coz if its really love, ur not goin to take this as a problem...
2007-01-12 01:59:58 · answer #4 · answered by Kolby S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants to wait til marriage then respect that. If she wants to wait til marriage due to a religous reason you have to respect her and her religon. So if you dont want marriage and you cant wait then your outta luck. So talk to her and explain to her, it wont change nothing but if you need to go your own way then you do. Go by a pocket puss or something. idk just respect her and if you are seriouly in love you could always get married but dont get married to be able to have sex. get married cause you love her.
2007-01-12 02:15:03 · answer #5 · answered by usmc_bmrhoades 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, dude, don't mess with her. Do you plan on marrying her? If not, don't lie to her to get it to happen. You have to respect her choice. Don't just make her another notch on the belt. Just tell her that you wish you could be more intimate and ask her if she's comfortable with that. If she is, and you haven't lied to her, then it's golden. Otherwise, just leave it be. If you really care about her and respect her, you'll just leave it be.
2007-01-12 01:57:17 · answer #6 · answered by M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"She wants to save it for marriage..."
And, there you have it: the answer to your question. Wasn't that easy?
What does it take for you to get it? Guys like you give the rest of us a bad reputation. Get some control over yourself and honor the wishes of this girl or you'll lose her. (Maybe she should lose you.)
2007-01-12 01:54:33 · answer #7 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a cracker jack ring and call it a marriage then go to town my friend.
2007-01-12 01:54:04 · answer #8 · answered by Vince 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be extra nice to her. bring lotsa flowers and candles. when she comes home, be layin on ur bed naked with ur weiner hard
2007-01-12 01:56:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really luv dis girl then wait...wait until u marry her...then u would say dat she was worth ur wait...
2007-01-12 02:04:22 · answer #10 · answered by prettynice_angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋