ive had many one nighters and sometimes the guy doesnt finish. ive heard this is unheard of... what is the problem? they r not drunk btw.
2007-01-11 17:41:54 · 20 answers · asked by angela 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im a proud sl*t... think, samantha jones
2007-01-11 17:47:52 · update #1
ill have all the one nighters i want, thanks. it's my pilates. aright?
2007-01-11 18:03:55 · update #2
If you were that ugly, I don't think they would even bother with you. Maybe they were physically unhealthy or malnourished. Maybe they were circumcised improperly (circumcision removes 70% of nerve endings from the area as well as a lot of skin, so it's no wonder that it could lead to that). Maybe they masturbated beforehand. Maybe they were nervous (although one wouldn't think that the guys who get into one-nighters are easily frightened -- they are putting their lives into the hands of someone they barely know). It could be anything.
Might I suggest that you not have one nighters anymore? Having any one-nighters is wrong, but having many is just atrocious. No offense, but most guys (maybe not in clubs and bars, but as a whole) would not appreciate you having many partners before them. It makes them wonder if you have diseases, if you are comparing them to other lovers, if you are afraid to commit, etc. Good night!
2007-01-11 17:53:47 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps your fellas are suffering from performance anxiety? Given the facts that #1 a one-nighter.....meaning they aren't as comfortable with you as say you had dated 3 or four times, and #2 you said they aren't drunk.....perhaps something to lower a few inhibitions prior too might help.
I also agree that if they didn't find you attractive they wouldn't be there in the first place. Here's a question for you.....any of these guys just break up or on a rebound? If so they may be emotionally intangled at the moment. Ergo their one night stand status.
Take your time, in choosing as well as in the doing. Hope some of this might add some perspective.
2007-01-12 02:12:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't say. From what I've heard it can happen if the guy's flaked out. I mean imagine it, a chap who's not slept for a couple of nights and is thrown in to bed even with Angelina Jolie would probably not finish!
2007-01-12 01:53:22 · answer #3 · answered by Sarab s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has something on his mind aka How many others have done thisd same thing? aka What am I catching right now? aka I dont want a kid?It can be hard to finish.
2007-01-12 01:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well guys from a third world country who wants to have a citezenship on your country dont.
2007-01-12 01:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow a proud sl*t-why do you care as long as your getting yours right?
2007-01-12 01:55:34 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not too ugly and I'd suggest you stop having sex and work on finding out who you really are. Then dating men who respect you.
One reason the men may not finish and don't call back, is you are giving it out for free. They don't even know you, you are just a body to them to use. STOP ALLOWING YOURSELF TO BE USED!
There are men out there who treat women with respect, who live with honor and do not have sex before marriage. Try respecting yourself and you'll attract men to you who will show you honor and respect.
2007-01-12 01:48:00 · answer #7 · answered by Mountain Bear 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
they re impotents. why do u even care? this is their problem. if a guy has everything ok with his willy he can bang anything that moves and still finish within few minutes. they were weak impotents
2007-01-12 01:46:21 · answer #8 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lets start with the many one nighters.....
2007-01-12 01:46:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it happens if the guy is thinking ...who else has she had a one night stand with
2007-01-12 01:46:42 · answer #10 · answered by Reaper 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋