I was wonderin what the ladies thought of this, tell me what makes you tick, and what is your most happy and found moment with a man, and what he did?
2007-01-11 17:41:34 · 13 answers · asked by laxgod55 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A dear friend (and wonderful lover) told me this a long time ago and I thought it was the best comment I'd ever heard from a man: If you make love to a woman's mind...her body will follow.
I suspect women will understand that comment better than men, so you may need an explanation. It's really not that difficult - it's taking the time and effort to learn what is truly important to her, what makes her happy, what makes her sad, what interests her...that sort of thing - none of which is necessarily sexual.
It's a shame that men in our society don't learn how to communicate better. It's something most men miss as children, I'm afraid. To me, honest communication is the key to any relationship, but especially relationships with women. It's the way we sort things out - the good and the bad.
I hope my input is helpful.
2007-01-11 18:10:30 · answer #1 · answered by Lea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's great that u asked this question.....I like the thought of it, very smart to look into this.....Personally I would say it would be something that most men would not do. I'm a writer and I would thus write something for my gf, but I don't know if every girl would like that.....I'm going to keep tabs on this.......
2007-01-12 01:47:34 · answer #2 · answered by Tomier 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Complement her on the little things occassionaly. Maybe thank her for making dinner, or how she cleaned the bathroom last week, or for always listening. Its the little things that make the difference sometimes!
2007-01-12 01:46:31 · answer #3 · answered by Flumma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spending real quality time together. talking discussing anything you both feel like talking about. and really listen to her. show her you respect her thoughts and feelings and share yours. a nice dinner out, or a quiet relaxing night at home, as long as its a relaxing fun time for both of you without all the distractions of noise and alot of people. she needs to feel special
2007-01-12 01:48:15 · answer #4 · answered by katlady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be considerate, listen to her advice/woes/happy stories, show your love for her by little treats, hugs, or thoughtfulness, make her laugh when she is sad, and just be self-confident, positive and yourself!!! :) perhaps asking her will give you the best answer!
2007-01-12 02:05:43 · answer #5 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Propose to her, marry her and always be faithful, and never ever forget a birthday or anniversary. Tell her you want to grow old with her.
2007-01-12 01:46:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oral. Showering together, either innocently or not, is lots of fun. Just be careful with the soap - sometimes it stings! Massage, especially right after showering.
2007-01-12 01:45:52 · answer #7 · answered by halie_blue 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
listen to her chat attentively, encourage her to continue, and enjoy her stores.
2007-01-12 02:19:22 · answer #8 · answered by jun s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her a car.
2007-01-12 01:46:19 · answer #9 · answered by johN p. aka-Hey you. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
whole body massages.
2007-01-12 01:46:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋