This is a man I've known 4 weeks. We just had sex at his place, lying in bed, and he starts talking about his holidays, how he spent time fixing up a rental house he owns. I was casually - casually! - asking him about the house, the repairs, how long he had the tenant, was he a good tenant - I was just trying to make conversation - I had NO ulterior motives. He gets angry and yells: "Why are we talking about my house?! My house is none of your g**d*** business!" Yelling. Very loudly. I was shocked and stunned. I also completely shut down, which is what I do when I'm surprised like this. And tears welled up in my eyes and started rolling down my cheeks. (I also felt vulnerable because I was nude, in his bed.) I got dressed and as I was leaving, said "should we talk about this?" He says no and adds that I am "unstable" because I cried! And it was 1 a.m. and he didn't walk me to my car. Unbelievable. It was humiliating. I don't see any reason to follow up with this man, do you?
2007-01-11 17:40:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you have no reason to follow up. Plus he did not have to talk about it to you. He could have said "no" and moved on in the conversation. I would leave him alone. Sorry to hear you were upset, but sounds like he is not that stable himself if he has to talk about what he has and then blow up at you. He did you a favor and u should be thankful to him he did, so you can move on to someone who cares about being open to you in conversation and that you can talk to about anything.
2007-01-11 17:50:04 · answer #1 · answered by linnie20022000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope. It seems that he is the kinda guy who'd qualify as a sociopath! Seriously, to attack at your most vulnerable is done for enemies, not friends.
2007-01-12 01:53:20 · answer #2 · answered by Sarab s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-12 01:48:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋