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i am arranged for marriage in almost 2 months. my fiancee toched me in private area and i liked but now feel very bad and guilt what should i do?

2007-01-11 17:40:03 · 2 answers · asked by ♥♥indian.princess 1 in Family & Relationships Weddings

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Nothing to feel worried or ashamed about, Princess !
...Most of the 'traditional' Indian families are still insisting that all 'boys' and 'girls' should be segregated from each other - to 'safeguard' their children from 'getting into trouble' !
What they do not realise, is that they are thus creating a lot of unnecessary frustrations in young minds - which result in such childish attempts at what they imagine to be 'intimacy'...
Under the circumstances, your fiancee has only tried to express his 'need' for you - in this very physical way. It is just like a starving child instinctively grabbing the first edible that comes within its reach !
In this case, at least, your fiancee has only tried his luck with his future bride. [If someone in your family can help, please try to privately find out whether he keeps trying to 'touch' other girls as well - in which case, you would be doing yourself a favour by calling off your engagement from a pervert.]
Since yours is a typical Indian 'arranged marriage', there would not have been any opportunity for the two of you to meet and get to know each other, as two persons.
After marriage, when your minds have intimately met, such casual physical intimacies will be a pleasure you'll both look forward to.

2007-01-11 18:14:25 · answer #1 · answered by Indychen 6 · 1 0

Nothing to worry more about it. It's natural. Can you tell more which private part did he touch you? Upper / Lower part of the body? Do not indulge for sex before you get married. Foreplay is Okay.

2007-01-12 01:43:48 · answer #2 · answered by aramaiya 3 · 0 0

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