how do i make my guy understan that sex every night is way to much an that i am just as happy if he would cut down to like 3 times a week
2007-01-11 17:38:57 · 9 answers · asked by D S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try telling him that even atheletes don't do the same exercises every day...
2007-01-11 17:57:01 · answer #1 · answered by Sarab s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make your guy "understand" anything, especially about sex. What you can do is tell him that he's exhausting and that to keep the relationship healthy, he needs to give you different kinds of love, some of which do not include intercourse.
He might not like that, but you have to let him know where you stand on this point. It's important. If he doesn't get it, he's not worth it. There will be other things that involve your needs that he won't get either.
Take some control of this situation. It's your body, not his.
2007-01-12 01:45:18 · answer #2 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I cannot wait to see what people have to say about this! I have the same dilemma, but when you talk to your gf they are so jealous, they come back with ??????Every night?????? S**t I'm lucky to get it once a month, or I can't even remember when we did it last. In a way we are lucky but man every night ugh
2007-01-12 01:43:54 · answer #3 · answered by i'm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just like that..
explaine to him that it is really hard on you to do it everynight, and you feel like you need to expell that energy somewhere else other than intercourse everynight.
let him know you do like it, but cut it down to a couple nights a week, explaine to him that if you have intercourse everynight it starts to be the same, but if its only a couple nights a week, it'll make it kinky, and exciting! (i'm sure he'll like this idea better anyway)
⥠kay â¥
2007-01-12 01:45:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
baby thats how guyz r ( sex addict) but try to come up with excuses and when u r having sex everynight try to act like u dont enjoy it and if u ever had a chance to skip couple nights when u have sex again act like that was ur best one ever keep doin it for a while coz eventually hell give up no body likes to do the job all by themselves if u know wut i mean.
2007-01-12 01:44:57 · answer #5 · answered by Josh m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happened to me..Some guys just can't sleep unless they have it..And if you are tired, or don't feel good, they think that you are cheating..So just be honest. If he knows its worth waiting for, he will. Works like a charm!!!
2007-01-12 01:45:13 · answer #6 · answered by ksk_05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your do well every night, but every second night you would be insane in bed! This should at least make him think about it!
2007-01-12 01:43:06 · answer #7 · answered by Silver Surfer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry, eventually he will tire of you and want something different. Then you will wish he was trying to bag you every nite. Just the way it is.
2007-01-12 01:42:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
keep making excuses....he'll finally get the hint.
2007-01-12 01:42:39 · answer #9 · answered by jabbergirl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋