I met this guy through my childhood friend at a club having drinks.she called him and asked him to come en join us which he did.I didnt stay long had to go home but before i left this guy asked for my number which i gave him en he called me twaice that night.we met again en he told me he really likedme i asked him bout my frend he said he almost went out with her but things couldn't work out coz she told him so.I asked him wat he would do if i told my frend he said it would be ok but when he met me en my frend together he was alittle uneasy.I really like this guy but he wants us to spend a nite out,told him i wud nt manage he seems on the low side,doesn't call offen.i have never had sex before which he says he respects.Am 24yrs en his 33yrs never married says we should take things to the next level but i feel i want to know him more en i still want to excel in my studies as well as do the right thing before God en people arround me.I Love him what should i do?
2007-01-11 17:34:09 · 6 answers · asked by janet n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait. Get to know him. Kiss him and if it feels right,...........
2007-01-11 18:05:09 · answer #1 · answered by Sarab s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey hi!!!!
lemme tell u that falling in love is beautiful(as u should know),
and wanting to please the other person and making him happy is also equally important to u at this time.But there is also a life of urs apart from dis guy u love and u have a right to live it.he should support u if u want to excel in ur studies and professional life.If u want to know him more and so on before u go to the next level, he should respect ur decision and comply.If not, pls rethink atleast 10 times before u take the next step.Its ur life and it will turn out the way you want it to, if and only if u take d right decision at the right time. And remember u win some and u lose some........
its upto u to decide what u wanna lose n what u wanna gain.........
i hope this helps u........if u wanna talk more my yahoo id is:sweetscapri_26 .add me........or mail me........
hv a gr8 life......cheers
2007-01-12 01:45:25 · answer #2 · answered by sweetscapri_26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's looking for a patch of fur, to put it plainly. This guy is not serious, don't go to the next level, it will ruin the experience for you. Although if it's not important to you, and want to get it over with, he's offering. Don't expect any kind of real relationship with him though.
2007-01-12 01:40:21 · answer #3 · answered by Roy B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Measure of a Man
If one day you discover him
Broken down
He's lost everything
No cars, no fancy clothes
To make him who he's not
The woman at his side
Is all that he has got
Why do you ask him
Move heaven and earth
To prove his love has worth?
Would he walk on the water?
Would he run through fire?
Would he stand before you
When it's down to the wire?
Would he give his life up
To be all he can?
Is that
Is that
Is that
How you measure a man?
If by chance all he had to give you
Was three words wrapped around your finger
Would that be deep enough
At the end of everyday?
And how will you ever know
If the man is what he says?
Why do you ask him
Move heaven and earth
To prove he hislove has worth?
Would he walk on the water?
Would he run through fire?
Would he stand before you
When it's down to the wire?
Would he give his life up
To be all he can?
Is that
Is that
Is that
How you measure a man?
He never gives up
Let's go of his dreams
His world goes around
For his one true belief
Is that how you know?
Is that what it means?
Hey
Would he walk on the water?
Would he run through fire?
Would he stand before you?
Will he be your anchor
When the dark unfolds?
Will he always love you
The best that he knows?
Would he give his life up
To be all he can?
Is that
Is that
Is that
How you measure a man?
Would he walk on the water?
Would he run through fire?
Would he stand before you
When it's down to the wire?
Would he give his life up
To be all he can?
Is that
Is that
Is that
How you measure oh-woh
Is that
Is that
Is that
How you measure a man?
2007-01-12 01:38:57 · answer #4 · answered by hauntedheart25 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you just need to take it slow and dont rush anything, your sound\
like you have a good head on your shoulder. so just keep doing what you doing your education is much more important right now
and since he sound like he respect your decision. then dont
worry so much about it. it will work it self out if it meant to be.
time will tell.
2007-01-12 01:41:52 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats right stick to what you believe in..sex is o.k but it only feels good when you love that pereson..that's my opinion
2007-01-12 01:39:37 · answer #6 · answered by LOVELY S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋