and said she does miss you. What the hell should your response be so that she doesn't think you are desperate? What would be a great response?
2007-01-11 17:29:59 · 16 answers · asked by D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, i do want her back. It was a silly break up. but how do i respond?
2007-01-11 17:33:46 · update #1
would you say something like "me too, you can call me if you want. Hope you're well" Something to leave the ball in her court i guess.
2007-01-11 17:45:56 · update #2
Tell her whatever you want to tell her, stop trying to play the stupid game.
2007-01-11 17:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen at your heart, people make mistakes..dont be too cocky if u truly want her back let her know. Make sure she knows that you dont like games and that if this continue or if she dumps u again for no reason there is no more chances and will be Over.Just one more opportunity for her.
I will text her back.." I miss you too", wait to see what she answers and then text back: "Can we meet to talk?..." Communication is the most important thing a happy couple have. So basicaly the worst you can do if you want her back is to dont answer. If she is to cocky...or dont want to try tooo hard you will loose her for ever and that will hurt more. Believe me it happens to me. he dump me then we were back then he did again a month after then he findout months after that he couldnt stop thinking of me when he was w his new girlfriend, knew she was not worth it and never had the gots to tell me. After 2 years we IM he happen to be online and send me a message he told me all about his feeling. It was too late.. he wait too long to tell me. He regreat it soo much. He is married now and he says he stil thinking of me once in a while. I was sooo in love w this guy I would had given a chance again no doubt! I may even had married him... but he didnt have the gots to comeback. so never happen.. still having a litle place obn my memories and my heart.... oh well. Dont let this happen to you. Give her a chance and express whats in your heart..no what u are suppose to do..Do what would truly make u happy. Thants u answer. No games .. Good luck!! and God bless you.
2007-01-12 01:54:06 · answer #2 · answered by zweetangel23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not be honest? Do you miss her also? You do not have to start begging her to get back together. Maybe she misses you and realizes she does not want to break up and she is waiting for your response. Or it could be she needed to talk to you but still wants to move forward without you. If you were together for a long time you lose a friend not just a girlfriend. When did she dump you?
2007-01-12 01:40:45 · answer #3 · answered by Shelly D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't text her back for a while. I would say that you were so busy, you just didn't have a lot of time to text her back. See what her response is then. Make out like you are doing fine and just don't act like you want her back at the moment. Make her think she will have to win your affections.
2007-01-12 01:33:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't bother responding. She's playing games. She dumped you probably for someone else, and when that didn't go as planned for her... she's reaching out to try to see if you'll take the bait.. Hit the delete button on your phone and move on. She's a gamer.. and immature by the sounds of it. You are better than that. Hope this helps!
2007-01-12 01:36:48 · answer #5 · answered by hydrogirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Respond truthfully. Talk to her, but also let her know the next time she dumps you for something stupid (if you didn't do anything wrong), may be the last time.
So the next time she dumps you for nothing, start looking for a new woman.
2007-01-12 01:37:20 · answer #6 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's trying to get back together, or at least stay on good terms. Say, "well, it hasn't been very long," and if you do miss her,tell her so. I don't think she can have the upper hand very much in this case.
2007-01-12 01:33:14 · answer #7 · answered by halie_blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since she made the first move, then just let her know that
you miss her as well and go from there. and see what happen
she may want to get back with you.
2007-01-12 01:37:02 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her people in hell miss ice water and a cool place to lay there head
2007-01-12 01:38:32 · answer #9 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Me too."
Don't add too much information then you would sound needy. You told her 'me too' that's enough to let her know your feelings and wait what she's going to do. If she reeally wants you back, she will respond, if not, you can save yourself from another heartache.
2007-01-12 01:34:16 · answer #10 · answered by Speck Schnuck 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋