My boyfriend Nick has been acting different lately, everytime that I come home late or I forget to call him, he snaps on me, this Isn't the way that he used to be. the other day we both got Into an arguement about me hanging out with his mother, he got the feeling I was telling her stuff about him, which I honestly wasn't. then when I got home, he asked where was I with a mean attitude, so I told him then he pushed me against the counter. he has grabbed me before too, he's grabbed me many times, especially when I am hanging out with his friends. he has never hit me before though, I am scared that Is what he Is going to do next, the next time that we argue. what should I do? please help me!
2007-01-11 16:39:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave him. plain and simple
2007-01-11 16:42:27 · answer #1 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to leave now before he escalates further. "Grabbing" and "pushing" are forms of physical abuse. They are inappropriate and he is displaying that he cannot control his anger. Further he is showing you that he has jealousy and trust issues and is becoming controlling in wanting to know where you are and with who and what you are talking about. There is never an excuse to put hands on someone- you don't have to be "hit" before it is abuse. You are being abused now, get out before you get hurt seriously. You should never be scared in a relationship- this is your "red flag" or "warning signal" that something is wrong. DO NOT ignore it. Please be safe and good luck to you.
2007-01-12 00:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK girl. RUN NOW!! Straight up! Pack your bags 'n leave! I know..yall probably got memories together, you have deep feelings & emotions for him (cause you still with him, so you felt like there was something to hold on to still). But this is how domestic abuse CAN start! NO doggone ..RESPECTABLE MAN should & WOULD ever put their hands on a woman! That is what my DAD himself taught me! I pray to God you get out and do well!!
2007-01-12 00:45:18 · answer #3 · answered by chiqa1485 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is acting like a small, cowardly man who wants to control you. If you want to have a happy and healthy life, I suggest you eliminate this individual from your life as soon as possible. Tell him it's you, tell him it's him, whatever... just get away before things escalate into the irreparable.
2007-01-12 00:46:11 · answer #4 · answered by Hummer Babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to leave him now before he becomes abusive in a more harmful way. this behavior you describe is an indicator that he is going to be abusive with you in the future. it start small like this, then it turn into somthing more one day, when your not expecting. Look at the website below to understand more.
http://www.ndvh.org/
2007-01-12 00:47:31 · answer #5 · answered by disco lemonade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT EVER LET A GUY PUSH YOU!!! HONESTLY, IF HE CANT RESPECT YOU PHYSICALLY AND EMOTIONALLY, THEN HE AINT THE ONE FOR YOU. MY BOYFRIEND USED TO GRAB ME LIKE HOW UR BF DOES. HE USED TO LEAVE ME BRUISES ON MY ARMS AND WRISTS. I FINALLY GOT TIRED OF IT AFTER THE 6TH OR 7TH TIME AND TOLD HIM TO CHANGE OF ILL LEAVE HIM. BUT UR SITUATION SOUNDS LIKE IT CAN GET EVER WORSE BECAUSE HE HAS ALREADY HAD THE BALLS TO PUSH YOU. DONT EVER LET UR SELF BE TREATED LIKE THAT. FIND SOMEONE WHO RESPECTS YOU AND TREATED U LIKE A QUEEN!!! AND NE GOOD GUY WOULD BE HONORED AND PLEASD AT THE FACT U AND HIS MOM ARE CLOSE!!!
2007-01-12 00:46:28 · answer #6 · answered by D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its gonna g et worse i can garentee that. you should never be scared of someone that you care about. id leave. unless ur up for a life of beatings.
2007-01-12 00:43:06 · answer #7 · answered by fine_ass_fatty21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shoot him and buy a dog
2007-01-12 00:51:10 · answer #8 · answered by irishlad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋