Well it's about this guy that I have a huge crush on and beginning to love him. He is a junior an I'm a freshman, we hang out sometimes and he always says bye to me when he goes somewhere, and we walk to several of our classes together. I was about to tell him today in school, but one of my best friends said that I should telll him after tests and finals because he is always on my mind; thus, it is very hard for me to focus on school. Later today, I am thinking about moving on and forgeting abou him. For some reason I am afriad that he might reject me if I told him I like him(this is my 1st love) or is he being friendly to me?. On the other hand what if he likes me. Should I mve one or wait for him?A few days ago my friend asked him if he likes me and he said no. I don't know how he said it or if he even means it. This is one of the reason why I am afraid to tell him my feelings!
Please can anyone give me some good advice and state their opinion about whether he likes me or not? Thanks!
2007-01-11 16:24:32 · 10 answers · asked by Kat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You may think you're beginning to love him, but stop thinking that. If you're a freshman in high school then you are entirely too young to get wrapped up in a guy that way. If he likes you, he'll probably ask you out. If you are doubtful, try to find out from one of his friends. Or get one of your friends to ask him. Just don't waste all of your free time thinking about this guy when you could be out enjoying your youth. Aaaaaggghhh!!!
2007-01-11 16:33:19 · answer #1 · answered by ...that´s what she said. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the risk, talk with him and try to find out. See if he looks at you interestingly while doing so. Be yourself. If the guy feels something he may ask you out or give a clear signal. Maybe he's shy, take that into account. After a short time if you still have doubt about it, don't hold back and ask him straight if he has something for you. Otherwise you will end with false ideas from others. It is better to cope with a hard truth than living in the constant uncertainty.
2007-01-12 00:39:07 · answer #2 · answered by Bright 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someplace you can be alone together and see how it goes...you know, like dinner or something not too heavy or serious...at first.
Wear something nice, and flirt and maybe touch a little. Let him know, "Hey, I like you and this could go someplace if you want it to..."
Guys can get all scared too. Mr. Cool might be asking himself the same questions, and might be too shy to find out the answer. You can make it easier, you just have to find a place where it's easier to be yourselves...
...and if he blows you off, move on, but don't burn bridges. Fine wine takes time, ya know?
2007-01-12 00:32:33 · answer #3 · answered by tina t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on if you are going to be ok if he doesn't have the same feelings for you. If you aren't going to be able to take it if you find out he doesn't like you, you should try not to get attatched to him as anything other than a friend. You can always become good friends and stuff, and if he decides he likes you maybe he will ask you out someday and you won't have anything to worry about.
2007-01-12 00:33:18 · answer #4 · answered by girl of lamancha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, basically you need to find out from him what his feelings are toward you. You have been having these feelings for him, but if you try to move on, you won't know what could have happened. Don't listen to your friend, go for it and find out yourself. At least if he doesn't like you that way, you know that you can move on and pursue someone with the same feelings.
2007-01-12 00:30:39 · answer #5 · answered by forealztho69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun it's still just a crush or infatuation...love is something that takes time, it doesn't just happen, even if you kinda-sorta talk to the person. It takes a strong relationship to build love.
2007-01-12 00:30:00 · answer #6 · answered by Heather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl relax okay.You should stop telling your friend to go and ask him if he likes you,this is not a good thing.continue your daily routines with him and dont get all excited when you are around him.If it was meant to happen it will happen dont impose anything on yourself and him.
concentrate on your school work share your time.School work, leisure .dont let one affect the other.
2007-01-12 00:34:58 · answer #7 · answered by KATEL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on its not gonna work
2007-01-12 00:28:06 · answer #8 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you know what love is
2007-01-12 00:28:45 · answer #9 · answered by brent21fool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask him yourself.
2007-01-12 00:28:49 · answer #10 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋