I just recently became single and it may be a lil too soon to start dating again but for some reason i would like too maybe in a month or so, but my ex just left me for another guy and she is due in march on top of the daughter i already have thats 1yr old.
I jsut dont have too much experiance trying to get a date i ahvent had to for the past 2 years and my daughter isnt even living with me right now soooo..... whatcha think?
2007-01-11 16:21:36 · 15 answers · asked by fretnoise21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've never dated a guy with kids but I would say just give it a little bit of time. I would guess that it might be a bit harder due to the fact that you have two kids but I'm pretty sure that you'll be able to find a girl that will love you and your two kids!!! Best of luck to you!!!
2007-01-11 16:27:23 · answer #1 · answered by Becca 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look, half the population is divorced and half of them remarry and blend their families. Tons of people start dating again and have children in tow. Just make sure when yu start dating that the young lady knows you have children AND an ex that will be part of the deal. You shouldn't have a problem finding a date, most likely when you start dating, the women you meet will also have children- that's the way it is now. Good luck for your future and with the upcoming birth of your second child.
2007-01-12 00:30:45 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women practice dismissal, fear, and preoccupation.
You need an opening line, small talk, and to close with getting her number or a date.
The number one dating advice for women is "play hard to get".
Also, no one has ever seen the start of a relationship, and obese blobs, (that are 50% of the population), have immature hysteria that causes delirium in good looking women.
2007-01-12 15:18:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally depends on the girl you're trying to date. From her perspective, you gotta remember to consider how it could impact her place in a relationship -- will the kid make her life miserable further down the road? ("you're not my mom!", "get away from my dad!", if a serious relationship developed and she got her own biological kid, how would it influence dynamics, etc)
Myself, I think a guy who loves his kid would catch my attention (father qualities are rare in younger guys < 35yrs). I would have concerns as to whether it could blow a relationship apart... but more likely, I'd probably find myself really loving spending time with his kid (I really like kids in general, they're fun!)... and it could also reflect that he's serious about having me as part of his life (don't put your kid through many dating relationships on your part).
Oh, "kid isn't even living with you right now"... says "irresponsible and player" loud and clear!
2007-01-12 00:53:00 · answer #4 · answered by Saphire Aurora 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold please.
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After you read it, go to the main page or check the stuff on the left side.
Let me know what you think. email me.
P.S. Forget about being a "nice guy" and "asking" females "out on a date".
And dont worry about the negative haters who tell you you cant raise a kid(s) AND be a man who see's women as well, you can.
2007-01-12 00:24:24 · answer #5 · answered by Peter X. Long 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well..it depends..some girls arent ready to take on that kind of baggage. it will be harder to meet girls but certainly not impossible...if you get to talking to a girl and explian the situation the girls might actually like you more because they'll sympathizewith the guy who was left by thew woman carrying his child. but then again the pity card does suck. so use your personality and you'll do fine.
2007-01-12 00:31:46 · answer #6 · answered by luckmess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should hold off on having kids for a little bit.. but honestly girls dont hold it againced guys that have kids... i've dated 2 guys that have kids..
if you dont have them all the time you would still have time to date.. and as long as your a respectable father to them girls kind of like that.. it shows that your grown up.. and maybe they could have a kid with you some day..
i wouldn't worry about it too much.
2007-01-12 00:34:08 · answer #7 · answered by ktd919 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're young. Grow up a little more first, then ask your question again, and you'll find you'll already know the answer. Put your kid first.
2007-01-12 03:27:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
when you do want to date though be honest with the person that you are dating admit that you have a lil girl. hey its a turn on to some women. but i don't think that it should be hard if your honest.
2007-01-12 00:25:44 · answer #9 · answered by Dory Ian 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I never had a problem. It isn't the kid that is dating.
2007-01-12 00:27:22 · answer #10 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋