i'm with this guy, justin, i love him with all my heart and soul but it's kinda hard for b/c we really dont get to see each other. and he almost broke up with me tonight over it. we only love like 50 miles from each other but he doesnt have his license yet. what should i do?
2007-01-11 16:17:08 · 15 answers · asked by Havok♥Chaos 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie, if 50 miles is going to cause this much stress then I say try not to fall so hard for this guy. It seems to me you must be pretty young. Are you still in high school? If so then just run away screaming, because you are much too young to think you love someone with all your heart and soul. I can't say it enough. To all the teens out there, Please Please Please don't get so tied down while you're still so young. But then, you'll learn these lessons on your own eventually.
2007-01-11 16:25:56 · answer #1 · answered by ...that´s what she said. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha omg! me too! well the long distance part and the justin part. except he has his license, but hes 800 miles away. anyways what you gotta do is focus on what you guys DO have and not what you dont have. just appreciate the fact you have each other and the love you share. the only way for it to work isif you both trust each other and hold onto each other. remember, if he really loves you, he'll wait for you and do anything for you. good luck:)
2007-01-12 00:21:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you both should get together in person and talk about what is going on between you two. This decision should be made by both of you. If you can't handle the distance between you both wait until you are able to see each other more when he gets his license. Good luck!
2007-01-12 00:30:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you do the driving?
There really isn't much to recommend a long distance relationship.
The definition of a relationship is that you relate to each other. Preferably in person.
You can try and persist in this relationship and both be miserable for the time you can't be with each other and date like other kids.
Good Luck,
CF
2007-01-12 00:23:20 · answer #4 · answered by Crispy_Frog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
50 miles jeesh, i tell ya. well LDR's sure arent easy i can tell ya that much. If u think 50miles is hard. try thousands of miles its not easy. i believe 50 miles is probley closer to a short distance relationship, the heart makes it feel longer at times.
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2007-01-12 00:42:24 · answer #5 · answered by thatsspoiledangel2u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well misty seeing as you guys live so far a way i think i would reather find some body that lives in the same town that you do so that he will be there when you need each other. take it from me long distance realtionships never work.
2007-01-12 00:27:37 · answer #6 · answered by mustanglady29 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in a very long distance relationship. i live in australia and he lives in england. our relationship is based on trust, love and communication. you need to talk on the phone a lot. and you need to make times when you can see each other. we see each other twice a year for about a month each time. but he is coming to live over here permanently this year. you need to be moving forward somehow to be able to keep it going. for example, one of you needs to be workng towards getting your licence.
2007-01-12 00:30:36 · answer #7 · answered by Katya M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like they say "distance makes the heart grow fonder"if you love then you have no other option but to wait for him because if he really loves he is also hurting right because you dont see each other and when you constanly remind him it makes him feel guilty and guys dont like feeling like that.
2007-01-12 00:26:50 · answer #8 · answered by KATEL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you deal with it? You end it so you have a chance at a relationship with someone who has more relevance in your life.
Meaning a guy who you can have contact with more than just once in a while.
2007-01-12 00:27:29 · answer #9 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to make it work by spending the weekends together.. if it's too much to handle then breaking it off is the right move
2007-01-12 00:20:44 · answer #10 · answered by cfrozty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋