Has this happened to u?
ok i was going out with this guy
and we broke up the other day
and to day i saw him holding hands with some other girl
he was already going out with some one else
i got really hurt wen i walked right by him and saw them together
and its not like i saw them from far away i was right next to him
and tommorow i have to see him in 2nd period it sucks
and now hes the only thing i think bout
i miss him
i cry every night
it hurst how much i luv him and miss him
AND NOW MY GARDES R GETTING REALLY BAD CUZ HES THE ONLY THING I THINK ABOUT ANYMORE
wat do i do?
2007-01-11 16:06:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honey hes just playing the field thats what guys do.your more than just a female gender so let it go say goodbye and know hes not really the one for you.
2007-01-11 16:10:07 · answer #1 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is impossible to imagine, but there is life after the end of a relationship. It hurts now, but this too shall pass. Surround yourself with family and friends and each time you think about "how much you miss him" remind yourself how much he misses you ... Your answer is in his actions ... He has moved on without hesitation to the next victim. Count your blessings. It hurts today but it will get better. Loose the looser. Don't let a guy like this crumble your world. The tears aren't going to change anything. Yes, it hurts but you are young and have a whole wonderful life ahead of you. You will meet a nice guy one day that loves you for simply being you with no games or heartache. Until then, respect yourself ... it's a priceless gift you give yourself. When you respect yourself others will respect you more :) Good luck!
2007-01-12 00:17:04 · answer #2 · answered by daffodil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start thinking about some of the other guys in school that you use to like or maybe some of the one's who flirted w/ you while you were going w/ Mr. Love'em Leave' em, and when you get ready for school make sure you lok your absolute BEST where a smile EVERYTIME you see the ex and be cheerful (even tho it hurts) and act like you are just so not into him anymore and before you know it you really won't be into him! And you'll probably have a new guy before you know it- one that can help you get your grades back up again! Good Luck!!
2007-01-12 00:13:54 · answer #3 · answered by buffster06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for what's happened between you and your boyfriend. It's been a very long time since my heart was broken by a boy, but I had it happen. This may not appeal to you, but Jesus is there for you. May I recommend that you find a Bible or New Testament and read through the book of John to become acquainted with Him, and pray that He will speak to you in the very way you need Him to. queenmother8386@yahoo.com
2007-01-12 00:43:59 · answer #4 · answered by Glennda T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are more important than any guy out there. Give yourself some respect and start living for YOU not a guy.
Distract yourself with friends, music, etc, Life is so beautiful and some day you will remember this and laugh.
Good luck Girl!
2007-01-12 00:13:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you do?
You grow up. First of all, I doubt highly that you were "so in 'luv' with him." Secondly, if he was as in 'luv' with you, he wouldn't already be with someone else.
You've got a lot more to worry about in life than this one guy. You've got school, then college, then a career and it goes on and on and on ...
One day you'll look back on how you're obsessing now and laugh at how trivial your life was back then.
Damn, I wish that's ALL I had to worry about these days.
2007-01-12 00:12:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick your self up and dust off. He don't want you charge that to his lost because your better than that he is not worth you getting bad grades over. when you see him take a dep breath and ask god to help you with this a nd smile at him whom ever he is with speak to her wit a smile and don't ever let another boy know how crazy you are about him. Speak to him and keep going and feel good about your self. He need some growing up to do you don't want any one who don't know how to communicate any way. So he may look good or what ever there will be some one better to come along and who will respest you for you not for their own self worth.
2007-01-12 00:14:31 · answer #7 · answered by miss out spoken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to think to yourself-
Do i really miss him because i am jelouse he is happy with someone else?
Or because you trully think you have a future with him,
Trust me your grades are really important, as much as you think your whole life and thoughts now revolves around this guy,
but the thing is, he seems happy and has moved on, so theres probably no point in dreaming of him, as much as u want to. Try and occupy urself with frends and study, soon enuf u will find sumone else:)
Also, as for seeing him tomorrow, just look hot! show him wat hes missing
Hope ive helped, i know what its like, my ex dumped me after 6 days! But i was so inlove with him, but i realised i only liked him for his looks, he was a total *** hole on the inside any way...... but i still miss him, the only thing to help u get ova him is time:(
Goodluck Hun!
2007-01-12 00:13:16 · answer #8 · answered by AussieGal777 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is part of growing up. You have to learn to cope with some disappointment. There are many valuable lessons to be learned including avoiding dating someone at work or at school. You can also learn to focus on your personal goals - good grades, getting into college, and improving your spelling.
2007-01-12 00:18:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is really sad but it happens to everyone
even famous actors actresses and models break up or even get dumped
all you can do is try to think of other things and be happy as you can
that will make it easier for you to have fun and attract the next crush you have
2007-01-12 00:11:45 · answer #10 · answered by Mike H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋