I currently have a situation with a guy. I toke his virginity while at college. We have become really close and are currently on christmas break from college. He is now moving to LA to become a model and not coming back to college. I just recently found out he is going on a DATE with a girl this weekend, that I found out who is absolutely gorgerous. I know we don't have a title. I live in the United States but have a boyfriend in London. My boyfriend does not know about the other guy. But having a boyfriend that lives so far away is hard. Should I be jealous of my guy seeing another girl? How should I react to this situation?
2007-01-11 16:05:01 · 7 answers · asked by Nikki 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You really don't have a right to be jealous. He's not your guy. He's a friend you introduced to sex. He's not your boyfriend, he's not tied to you, and he can do whatever he wants. You'll probably hear from him once in a while as an 'old friend', but that's it.
You might also want to do your boyfriend a favor and cut him loose. Long distance relationships are hard, and you've clearly let go of the exclusivity of being a girlfriend, so it's probably time for both of you to gently let each other move on.
2007-01-11 16:14:10 · answer #1 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is most likely only seeing another girl this week because you have a boyfriend in London...i'm sure he wants to be more than just 'the other guy' so he's making himself move on..and the fact that shes gorgeous help his cause quite a bit. i will tell you this though, i think you and mr. london should call it quits or take a break..because i'm sure that if you care about him you don't want to hurt him by cheating..if you are lonely because mr. london isn't around..or if you're confused..the kindest think you can do is take some time out to figure how you feel about everything. so deal with your boyfriend first...tell him you need time to think about things..and take a break. go to the model guy and tell him you have feelings for him and that you're not with your boyfriend at the moment because you realized your feelings for him. there's a good chance he'll ditch the date altogether..after all you'll have made a sacrifice so why shouldnt he?
OR, if the model guy is just a fing and you love your boyfriend..be faithful..and bite you're cheeck when you see model guy with the new girl.
there arent too many options here i guess.
2007-01-12 00:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by luckmess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not sure but i am a guy so i think when he lost his virginity with you he found some thing in you but now he wants to try some thing new so may be you might not be satisfying him any more just ask him and see what he says but for sure you are the first one so it is hard for him to forget you
2007-01-12 00:11:50 · answer #3 · answered by khanaliimran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honestly you have a boyfriend and you shouldn't be with the other guy but if you feel closer to the other guy than you should be jealous i mean i would!
2007-01-12 00:11:18 · answer #4 · answered by Overkill310 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nikki, hey girl i would be very made and jealous for one thing you two had sex he must have love you since you are his first an i right or wrong.and as for the other guy if he is treating you good and is not cheating on you then i say go for it. good luck Nikki
2007-01-12 00:19:32 · answer #5 · answered by mustanglady29 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were ever in that situation, Yea i would be jealous. But you have a boyfriend..be very careful
2007-01-12 00:08:15 · answer #6 · answered by alkdjf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you a slut but we men like girls like you. sharing means caring.
2007-01-12 00:10:03 · answer #7 · answered by bi di badi boo 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋