y is tht i jus cant find a good girl to be with .i mean i am into a lot of addictions n i guess the only person who can change who i am is a girl .but i cant find anyone yyy?
2007-01-11 15:57:53 · 28 answers · asked by (omplExity _|_ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are an addicted person, that means you have issues and if you have issues, you are not capable of having any type of normal, healthy relationship w/ a woman! if you have problems, what good or positive can you offer to your significant other? you are just not ready for a relationship. If you really want one, you should work on improving yourself first.
2007-01-11 16:03:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....
The only person who can really change you is YOU. For starters, try to express yourself well. You may think your abbreviation makes you "cool" but it just makes your sentences awfully difficult to understand.
For second, think, why would anyone be attracted to you? You just admitted you are an addict, and you want someone to "fix" you up. You have nothing to offer and you need others to offer you help. THAT is not going to happen.
Right now, you are a MESS, regardless of if you want to admit that or not. If you don't like to be called a MESS, change it.
2007-01-11 16:04:12 · answer #2 · answered by tkquestion 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, your trying way to hard. As for the addictions, you are the only one who can fix that. Ya, a girl may be able to help but try proving that you can do it with out a girl.
2007-01-11 16:04:21 · answer #3 · answered by Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to look and and not do drugs that's a turnoff i mean u don't have any fun or anything i know u will try to break these addictions once the right person comes along but still maybe if u clean up alittle u will find the right person
2007-01-11 16:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe if you're already an addict you are gonna be a shitty boyfriend and a girl can't change you thats ultimately your job so thats why no one wants to be with you you attract what you project
2007-01-11 16:02:40 · answer #5 · answered by Bri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls can not change you , you have to change yourself only
girls will not like persons who are addicted one
2007-01-11 17:34:29 · answer #6 · answered by sonali s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're mistaken.. the only person that can change you is "you"!!! Do NOT look for someone to come save the day and change you. Start helping yourself and then you will find someone.
Good Luck
2007-01-11 16:02:29 · answer #7 · answered by LJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you should check more about yourselves
May i know your girl types?
I have a best friend who hates noys i mean not so like boys
She bit pretty harrash to male
But actually she was so kind
TRULLY!
2007-01-11 17:36:09 · answer #8 · answered by Arrakhis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls like stable men, men who don't depend on tobacco, alcohol, or drugs to get through the day. they want men who are more focused on them then their daily fix. go into rehab, and you're sure to gain more girls when you get out - you'll be sworn off all those addictions (and feel very carefree i might add) and you'll feel 200% better!
2007-01-11 16:02:35 · answer #9 · answered by skigrrl66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats exactly it. you can't FIND the right girl. she'll come to you. trust me, love is soooo spontaneous. you wait a couple more weeks, not looking for someone, and that special girl will walk right into your life. im not joking, i told this to so many ppl and it worked! love is patiant :)
2007-01-11 16:01:04 · answer #10 · answered by Kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋