my husband told me : he love me always no matter sex is good or not,??? i wonder it is most man think??
2007-01-11 15:54:25 · 15 answers · asked by hsiaofonglin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sex and Love are NOT the same thing.
I heard a saying a long time ago that I have found to be very wise: "sex outside of love is a demanding master while sex within the frame of love is an obediant servant."
If a person has sex with another without loving the other, then it is a selfish act, meant only for that person's own gratification -- in order to be satisfied, then a person has to have more of it. If a person actually loves the other then the act of sex becomes a form of expression of that love and that is what love actually is: giving, selfless, always concerned about the other.
Your husband sounds like a "keeper" to me -- if he actually said that he loved you no matter if the sex was good or bad, then consider yourself fortunate and be assured that he actually loves you.
2007-01-11 16:11:49 · answer #1 · answered by calledkevinalot 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think it depends on the man, some men are happy to have a wife or companion if you really love someone the sex should,nt have to be that important
2007-01-11 16:05:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree also . I love my wife no matter what! but if what ur asking is are sex and love separate , I unfortunately think so but they shouldn't be that is why I never have sex w/ my wife . I always make love w/ her !
2007-01-11 16:02:25 · answer #3 · answered by sentrysharpshooter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men are not emotionally attached. in psychology they study animal behavior for people. men are like beasts.. they spawn the seed and women nurture the seed think of 2 lions. the male goes off the lady one raises it. beast like. some are same religion and have same moral code as you and can be emotional. from what i hear and a i hear a lot around me most can hop around not think twice of one night stands unlike some woman. some are same tho. i personally have to love the person or be willing to take the risk of my heart being broke. most men just gather a notch on their ego belts. know this now men are psychical and woman are emtional. not all but most
2007-01-11 16:01:03 · answer #4 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man does not have love a woman to have sex
and a woman wants to love someone before having sex
I would not want a woman who just lies there that would be consided a dead F---
2007-01-11 16:12:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to break this to you but most likely, he's hinting that you're not good in bed... i dont want to put this thought in your head but you should start mixing things up. how about some foreplay, new positions, just something spicier! its good he sed he'll love u no matter what, but being better in bed is not sucha bad thing!
2007-01-11 15:58:59 · answer #6 · answered by Kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some adult males, its quite uncomplicated to split intercourse from emotion or love. To them, intercourse is incomprehensible and in basic terms the thank you to get off. in the event that they have a unsleeping it bothers them and that i think of it bothers maximum. Many adult males could have the gall in charge there female buddies for the explanation there cheating. adult males who cheat are very immature and egocentric and mockingly society is seeing women folk try this further and extra.
2016-12-12 09:41:09 · answer #7 · answered by kulpa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is trying to be nice......I am sure he does like sex with you, if he loved you he would.....but in order to reasure you of that he tells you no matter what.....I think you are reading to much into what he said.......point is
HE LOVES YOU!!!!!!
2007-01-11 15:58:56 · answer #8 · answered by travischrissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they r seperate, dont u think it feels good, ill tell u when im havin sex im not thinkin does this person love me, i think damn this feels good, but together they can be great, but that dosent mean you need one to have the other
2007-01-11 15:59:13 · answer #9 · answered by Patrick H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes... i believe sex is not everything in a relationship.
2007-01-11 17:20:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋