I was blindly loving a gal....I did all the things which can give her pleasure. She was always happy...one day I asked her do you love me?She didn't tell me..so I said her ok think and tell me later...again I asked after few days...her behavior was like she loves me...like accepting my love greetings and many more.
After four five time I called and I asked her.then .she said me why are u irritating me...I am already engaged.I have never seen stupid person like you.....and many more...and cut the call and even doesn't want to meet.
Extremely negative feelings are coming..like Sahid Kapoor in Fida.
Shud I take certain action?
Wat shud I do?
Or shud I finish myself..?
2007-01-11 15:54:12 · 25 answers · asked by nbgl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just ignore her , dont eer talk to her, even if she wants to , and get yor self another girl who reciprocates your feelings, but dont be in a haste, chose wisely.
finishing ofis the most cowardly act , and if you feel like that then you certinly are not worth any girl's love.
2007-01-11 15:59:44 · answer #1 · answered by SUNIL Raj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first I did not want to answer you simply because of the last line, “Or should I finish myself..?” I don’t like getting involved with losers! On second thoughts I realized that it is the losers that need advice…and so here I am my friend reaching g out to you with whatever my advice may be worth. However, first things first. “NEVER, EVER, AGAIN WILL YOU EVEN THINK, SHOULD I FINISH MYSELF? OK” My friend if you fall blindly in love with a girl and think that you are the best guy to her etc., etc. it does not necessarily mean that she should reciprocate likewise. It seems she gave herself time to see if her heart was opening up to you (her behavior was like she loves me...like accepting my love greetings and many more). However, you were rushing her and demanding a commitment from her, which she did not feel. This is the problem of falling blindly in love, you don’t see the fact that the other person is not with you, and the chemistry is not working. You imagine that the other person is blindly in love with you. Last but not the least more often than not falling blindly in love is nothing but a strong dose of infatuation. I am sure you will realize this in the near future…as soon as another girl shows you some attention you will forget all about this girl and channel all your energy towards the new girl. Only this time I hope you would have learnt all the lessons from your present predicament. Don’t throw yourself at the girl, move at her pace. Best of luck!
2007-01-11 18:15:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To begin with, this is only a 1 sided relationship. She stick around u for a while cos u can shower her probably with gifts, attention etc which she may only needed at that time only. When she get over it, she is herself again. The conscious self that not appreciating u at all.
End yr self u ask? Think that's the most foolish way to do. I mean how many times u can die when gals rejected u? Isn't it common? It happens everyday. This a process u r going thru in order to meet the gal of yr dreams not a final decision on live & death! Relax man, u will find better love next time! Yeah........
2007-01-11 16:16:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was wrong on her part to not tell you earlier about her engagement and yet keep on encouraging you. Even if she was forced to get engaged to someone else, she should have had the courtesy to tell you so politley. Using bad language doesnt speak well of her. You have to forget her.
No drastic action is called for from your side.One always feels bad when one fails in love, but that doesnt mean it is the end of the road for you. There would be hundreds of other girls worthy of your attention and love, and you should start looking out for them. Once bitten is twice shy, and so next time you would be more wise when dealing with girls. This doesnt mean that you look at all girls with suspicion. Behave normally, have confidence in yourself and face the future with hope.
2007-01-13 19:29:15 · answer #4 · answered by greenhorn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don`t take such a foolish step just bcoz a girl left u. At least think about ur parents & other family members. You should have enquired earlier if she is engaged or not. Now when she has left u ,life will not stop. Stop thinking about these stupid things and find a good & FAITHFUL match for yourself.
All the best!!!!
2007-01-11 20:02:56 · answer #5 · answered by shailendra s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woe! Slow down. I think you overwhelmed her. You should really slow down. Let a girl breathe. You got too serious too fast. Enjoy life as it comes to you instead of pushing & rushing. Find someone else to go out with. You can't just throw yourself at someone and then get angry if they don't share the same feelings. If a girl you wasn't so fond of was doing it to you..,you'd probably do the same or something else to end it. What do you mean by finish your self? I know you aint talking about taking your own life because someone dismissed you. That is retarded. I know you aint that weak. Get over her and move on!!
2007-01-11 16:11:49 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this kinda questions are basically asked by teenagers. when u grow up, u will laugh at your present state n condition! Its very natural and humane to love others. We all make the mistake of thinking that when we love some one, it gives us the right to expect love in return! but unfortunately its not so! Take heart n be brave. accept the fact that u truely love this person, whether she loves you or not. When u shun the trader mentality of expecting love/ friendship, in return, you will experience true love! You must check your premises and make sure its not lust but true love. If its true love, , it doesnt matter whether she loves you in return or not. Her happiness is all you will care for.Do not do anything stupid and just keep loving!
2007-01-11 16:19:42 · answer #7 · answered by bhatrax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fool!
Suicide is the worst mistake you will ever done
No Gods from any religion will accept you to heaven if you do that
Calm down yourselves!
Don't worry about that you will find a perfect match later
I swear
2007-01-11 17:32:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IGNORE
The fact is that she liked you but the situation that she is already prevents her to accept your love and when you time & again remind of that, she gets irritated. But that does not justify it at all. She was supposed to decide either way - Leave him or leave you. She does not decide. COULD YOU (OR HER PROPSED MAN) RELY ON HER?
Life is like that only.
You desrve something better...
Good Luck.
2007-01-11 18:10:16 · answer #9 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dear friend ,
don't be disappointed and disheartend , if ur gal responded so .. sometime a person doesn't feel the importance of the person till he/she is having that person..so better u go away from her and let her realise what she lost .......
and it's well known that if u love someone then set it free if it comes to u then it's urs and if doesn't then it was never urs ..
don't let her lower ur self esteem ... and feel proud on herself..
if u r good ....MANY OTHER GIRLS WILL COME INTO UR LIFE WHO WILL UNDERSTAND THE VALUE OF U ..
2007-01-11 16:58:21 · answer #10 · answered by rahul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋