I have 2 close friends of mine who have been debating over the topic of what men really want. One is an old fashioned type of girl and the other is the real-life version of Samantha Jones. Anyway, the argument goes that 'sexually independent' women are also seen as 'sluts' but men have no problem when they are the ones having sex with these ladies, because they want someone with experience. So, do guys like to settle down with women who have 'spread themselves around' a bit or do men really prefer a 'good girl' when he thinks about a serious long term relationship or marriage?
2007-01-11 15:47:20 · 15 answers · asked by GaLFurend 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would have to say yes. But I guess it also depends on the guy. I mean if the guy isn't in it for sex then he won't choose women that give it out. Men that want a real relationship everytime will look for girls that wnat that. If girls or guys want a sexual relationship, they'll find those people that will offer them those pleasures. So look for those guys, it's not hard to find the one's that want a great relationship with a girl. They'll wait, they'll care, and they won't fool you. They'll be true to you. The other ones will show you that they just want your body, and not your soul too. Hope that helps. I know it helped me
2007-01-11 15:58:52 · answer #1 · answered by Nick S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys will always want a woman who's wild, crazy and sexually promiscuous. A girl like this may provide a man with a lot of sexual opportunities. A relationship like this is very high speed and is more suited for a private experience.
But when a man marries or settles down with a girl. Life gets more complicated/difficult. It's not just about sex anymore. A man will need a slower pace relationship that won't burn out so quickly. A well mannered good girl is a better match and is suited for a more social experience. You can always take the nice girls to have brunch with your parents.
2007-01-11 16:30:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's YES! Any man, no matter how he is........prefers to settle down with a Good Girl. They want someone who they can trust and depend on, who will love them unconditionally and take care of them.
2007-01-11 15:54:19 · answer #3 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like the song goes
"I want a lady in the street but a freak in the bed"
It doesn't matter how the woman is as long as she carries herself in a respectful manner.
2007-01-11 15:52:01 · answer #4 · answered by forgiving_madison 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy and yes that is quite true believe it or not but me i want to spend my life with a good girl who doesn't cheat or any of that because i don't want to be hurt.
2007-01-11 15:52:11 · answer #5 · answered by chongo89478 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's one of the oldest double standards in the book, but men marry women they can bring home to mama.
2007-01-11 15:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Sexually Independent"....whaaaa?? you must be kidding. But yes guys would rather settle down with a girl you hasnt had sex with more people than they can remember.
2007-01-11 15:54:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the most part, yes.
2007-01-11 15:49:44 · answer #8 · answered by Katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I can choose, I'll prefer the gal I love is my wife, my lover and my friend. All in one! Otherwise, this case is true.
2007-01-11 17:14:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely
The perfect girl acts like a lady in public ....and a whore in bed
2007-01-11 15:52:08 · answer #10 · answered by Dave S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋