realtionship of 7.5 year. He says he loves me and wants to be married to me but when I ask when he acts like I'm being pushy. He has done wrong, but i loved him & stood dack ny his side we are good together. It'd when you get people off th street asking you "when is he gonnnnnnnna fially marry you?" That is a little embarassing,
2007-01-11 15:46:00 · 8 answers · asked by pooty36 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
It's called "stringing you along." And he'll do it for as long as you let him. I don't know if you guys are living together, but if you are, he has absolutely no incentive to marry you, because he has everything he wants, without the responsibilities of marriage. And I'm not just talking sex (although it is a biggie), I'm talking the companionship, someone to care for him, etc., etc.
2007-01-11 15:57:50 · answer #1 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it so embarassing to you? I mean if it wasn't embarassing to you after the 5th year of being with him then what is the deal now? The only reason I ask this question to you is because I can garuntee that you all are doing all of the thing's married people would like having sex and everything under the sun. I mean why purchase the house when you can live in the mansion rent free with out respondsibilty of mantanices? What I mean by that is GET TO STEPPING!!! Honey the fact of the matter is he is probably just saying he wants to marry you because he knows that is exactly what you want to hear!! Otherwise he is basically telling you that at this point you are on his time table and he will marry you when he gets ready to and not a minute sooner!! That's why he is not willing to talk about it with you..
2007-01-11 23:58:58 · answer #2 · answered by Jazzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage does not make a good relationship, people being good together does. So if you love him he loves you and you treat each other right, tell those who ask, when are you getting married already. Reply with, when we have nothing else to live for. Why ruin a perfectly good relationship
2007-01-11 23:54:50 · answer #3 · answered by Brittanyskye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next month my boyfriend and i will celebrate our 8th 'anniversary' of dating (we were in HS when we started dating), so i know what you mean about EVERYONE asking when you are going to get married...sometimes it bothers me too, because at some level i probably think we should be married already, but hey, don't forget that it's your relationship and you have to do things at your own timing...if you are meant to be together, you will get married when it is right for the both of you...
just be sure, though, that he is completely right for you...don't settle just because you've been together forever and have been through a lot...make sure that he is the kind of man you want to spend your life with...if he is, it'll happen...be patient, and don't listen to those other people!
2007-01-12 00:11:45 · answer #4 · answered by jennyvee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he probably really doesn't want or need to get married. You have been hanging around him long enough; four and a half years longer than I would have! What are you waiting for? You are losing your good years waiting for him to come around to what you want, and he isn't. Sorry. Time to move on....
2007-01-12 06:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called.....stringing you along. If he truly loves you, he wouldnt hestitate at all.
2007-01-11 23:54:13 · answer #6 · answered by rokdude5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like a wise friend once said "WHY BUY THE COW WHEN YOU CAN MILK IT FOR FREE?"
2007-01-12 00:16:00 · answer #7 · answered by mayra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all men...
2007-01-11 23:53:02 · answer #8 · answered by MUERTE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋