i love him so much im confused.....
2007-01-11 15:37:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Other - Diseases
being in love can be very confusing. surely if you love someone, your love will conquer all problems, right? so it doesn't really matter that it's been five years, or this is the first other woman. what matters is maintaining your self-respect. without it you lose yourself and any chance of a fulfilling, honest relationship. Your guy has no respect for himself,you or the other woman. does she know about you? are you the other woman in her life? do what is best for your emotional health. when was the last time you felt truly happy? probably before you knew about her. aren't you worth more than what he's putting you thru? take a day for you. set your priorities. define ways to attain the new goals. include happiness. it can be done without him. when you finish this task, including the happiness(may take several months and you're worth it) if he's changed his ways, make a decision if you're still in love. time heals all wounds. take it from a woman who's been there. good luck
2007-01-11 15:59:21 · answer #1 · answered by rainbowmedicinewoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he love you as you love him? If he continues with his relationship with another woman at the same that he has a relationship with you, he is selfish and does not love you enough to give up this other relationship. While you can, let him go if he will not accept an "exclusive relationship". You will continue to hurt knowing that you are not the only woman because then, you have to share him with someone else.
2007-01-11 15:52:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a relationship with a guy that has someone else.That's not having a relationship.Try your hardest not to feel confused although its normal.You need a clear head to think about your future without him. Let her deal with the cheater.Time will heal your broken heart.Take care.
2007-01-11 15:47:50 · answer #3 · answered by Ms Lety 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, how is love a disease? I think you mis-posted this one. Okay, maybe it is a disease....
Second, if he's got another woman, then unless you want to be part of this guy's harem, then it's time to bail.
Cut your losses, get the painful part done. Don't see him or talk to him or email him... no contact... for 30 days or more. If you have contact w/ him then you only keep the pain going.
2007-01-11 15:45:14 · answer #4 · answered by geek49203 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your love die. Focus on all the bad things about him (how about liar/cheater) and remember all your fights. Go out and have fun with your girlfriends. Take it one day at a time and each day it'll hurt a little less. I promise.
2007-01-11 15:42:46 · answer #5 · answered by LO! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has another woman than how is that respecting you and what is so great about him if he is cheating on you? Get rid of him and get some self respect, too.
2007-01-11 15:41:18 · answer #6 · answered by sherockstn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey move on with your live,i know you said you love him,but you got to first love yourself,it will be hard,but if he is for you ,God will have to change him and bring him back.But love you and take care.
2007-01-11 15:56:20 · answer #7 · answered by hanagal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new guy....you have your whole life im sure someone is like right under your nose
2007-01-11 15:47:38 · answer #8 · answered by Orange? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, let him go.
2014-12-27 06:40:47 · answer #9 · answered by Nicola 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋