We have been going out for a few months. But we hardly talk anymore and things are alittle weird between us. Any advice?
No stupid answers please?
2007-01-11 15:36:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just do it outright. The longer you wait the more awkward it will be. This is about you, not his feelings. He'll get over it. Most men are much more shallow than we want women to think. It makes us seem more sensitive.
Good luck.
2007-01-11 15:42:33 · answer #1 · answered by TIM'S HOUSE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are, he has noticed the awkwardness, too, especially if you dont talk much. He probably feels the same way about the relationship as you do. The sooner you call it off, the better. Be nice about it... "I guess youve noticed how weird things have been for a while," "Things just aren't working out like they used to between us," etc., make for decent conversation starters, I guess.
2007-01-11 15:43:18 · answer #2 · answered by Bobby S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in reality there is no definite words that would not sound hurtful especially when you are breaking up with someone
but the best way is to be honest, tell him youre breaking up with him cause you no longer feel the love you once thought was there, you no longer talk to each other,
and by setting each other free in the process you can find someone better, he will find someone who can make him happy for now, that woman is no longer you, and that man is no longer him,tell him youre ending it because you think you are hindering him from growing, and that you wish him all the best in life and thank him for all the good times you have shared together, tell him he would always mean something to you, but its time to let go
2007-01-11 15:42:22 · answer #3 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was stuck in the same situation. i just pulled him a side and told him that I'm really sorry, but we need to break up. and if it's true then be sure to tell him that it wasn't anything that he did it's just that you want to move on. i hope this helps. good luck. i know that this is not a fun situation to be stuck in.
2007-01-11 15:42:36 · answer #4 · answered by 19D Lil Sis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well- if you dont talk much and its weird for you guys anyways than maybe breaking up with him is a good thing and maybe he might even be a little releaved. he just might feel that same way.
2007-01-11 15:40:18 · answer #5 · answered by signalfirst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you need to be honest with you self is that that you really want to do? then just break it down to him and let him know that I don't want any hard feeling but dude I'm not feeling this relationship i hope that we can remain friends who knows may be one day we may be able to hook up but for now we need to go our separate ways. just keep it real!
2007-01-11 15:44:18 · answer #6 · answered by miss out spoken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god your exactly like me!
i just broke up with my boyfriend about 3 hours ago. it was terrible. he was begging me not to and i felt so bad. there's no good or bad way.
make it quick. that was my mistake. it took me about 40 mins to do it which just made it worse. also, say we can be friends, but nothing more.
good luck and hope i helped!!!
also- expect him to be an ******....he's hurt after all.
2007-01-11 15:41:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say i like you but things have gotten wierd so lets ust see other ppl
2007-01-11 15:40:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When girls broke off with me they 'd simply tell me theyr'e not in love with me - straight.
2007-01-11 15:40:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him why you want to break up maybe he will try to make it work?
2007-01-11 15:40:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋