i am a bit shy, what is the best way to ask the girl of my dreams out???

Question

she is so beautifull, that she seems way out of my league, but i realy like her

Answer 1

hey.......wut U mean by shy? ur just asking her out.....thats all...first convince ur self that ur not SHY....thats the start...for example....tell to ur self,,,that ur not shy.....keep on repeating this for few hours........we R guys......we R strong.....we can do it...then go for it dude...dont practice or be ready before U go ask her out....just look straight in to her eys...dont stare at her lips or head or what so ever...by looking at her eyes straight, she'll feel wut ur gonna say and she will knw that ur a honest guy...people dont keep eye contacts when they R fake.....so for heavens sake, keep eye contacts....let ur words come from ur heart...u'll freak out first or tangle ur words at first but thats ok...within seconds u'll be ok.......dont practice wut u r gonna say.........come up with a concept of wut U gonna say....I mean, A way to say wut U wanna say but dont practice ur speech word by word.. its stupid......u 'll recide it like a poem and she wont even feel it.........so just be ur self.....dont try to be some one else or dont try to change ur voice or anything.......thats wut most guys do wrong.........just tell her short and sweet........and remember to compliment her by saying something U like about her.......ladies dig that kinda words.........all the best dude.......go for it before someother freak snatch her from U........

Answer 2

Well, first ask yourself who she is on the inside, not the outside. Some beautiful girls would do anything to have the nice shy guy (my preference) and get frustrated with the players who treat them like a piece of meat. Others are not the nicest to know and only care about superficial appearances and status. So if she's the first case, just be yourself and take things casually (if its a case of "hey, I'm kind-of interested, lets have fun and see where things might go, and its cool if we find out we don't really click", there's less pressure... believe me, dating is not fun when you feel under pressure and that the person wants to move too fast and has expectations... saying "no" can be easier than tying to escape a mess later). If she is the second case... do you really want someone like that? (if so, sorry, I can't help you there)

Answer 3

I was there too. I really liked a girl that was sooo out of my league (or so I thought!) Just bite the bullet, pull your socks up and get er done. Just friggin ask her out. Tell her how you feel about her. The worst thing that can happen is that she'll say no. it sucks but there's also the chance she'll say yes! Its a 50/50 chance man. Them are good odds!. Like what happened to me, you might be suprised at the outcome.!

Answer 4

There's an old addage about the prettiest girl in school never going out on dates because everyone thinks she is out of their league, so no one asks her out.

Go for it ... I had the same struggle when I was in school.

But I decided that memories are sweeter than regrets. You've just got to ask yourself ... "Do I want the memory of being man enough to let her know I like her, no matter the answer ... or do I want the regret of never knowing whether she might've said 'yes?'"

Hey, and a great way to overcome a rejection, assuming that she's not rude about it, is to roll out of it with a "Okay, well ... I just wanted you to know that I think you're pretty (hot, cute, cool, great, etc.) ..."

Sounds cheesy, but it's a nice way to stroke her ego and you never know if later on she might be checking you out because of what you said and how you handled the situation.

Answer 5

Tell her that you like her so much, that even though everything in you told you not to ask, you will take a chance that she might like you too, since else you would go through the rest of your life wondering what might have been...
You have self esteem problems, that's why you think she is beyond your reach. Get over that. Lots of really hot women never get asked out, because the guys are too chicken to take a chance, and ask.
The ones you like the best are the hardest to talk to!

Answer 6

Step 1: Walk up to her. Say "hi".

Step 2: Small talk. Ex: Weather, upcoming school basketball game, class

Step 3: "I was wondering if you'd be interested in hanging out on ______."

Step 4: If she says yes, then-- "Can I have your number so I can call you later? We can set something up. Cool. Talk to you later."

Simple. Maybe not easy if you're nervous.

Just do it.

Answer 7

Just ask her. You won't know if you don't try. But if you think you're going to be a nervous wreck about it, try practicing first.
And don't ask her when she is with her friends! Practice makes perfect...remember that...and let us know how it goes! You can do it. Nerdy guys are IN these days!

Answer 8

Find out what she likes, make an escuse to take her there (even if it's a fib), be creative, and brother you will be on that roller coaster of a relationship in no time.

Answer 9

sincereity goes a long way. Go up and say to her.
I know that u are way out of my leaugue. Mau o be counted as one of your friends and admirers. I been wanting to say this for a long time.

Would you like to go out sometime, No Guts no Glory! I would rather be sorry for something i did than i didnt do. God bless

Answer 10

tell her you have 20 dollars to your name and your willing to spend your last 20 on a date with her