My friend and her boyfriend fought just last night and the thing is that every time they have argument en fight the guy would always say that he is going to kill himself…that what my scares for…what would my friend do now?
2007-01-11 15:31:56 · 14 answers · asked by cj r 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your friends boyfriend is trying to control her with threats, people who really intend offing themselves tell no one.your friend needs to pick herself up,dust herself off and walk away before she becomes a victim
2007-01-11 15:36:29 · answer #1 · answered by resigned 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When someone threatens to do themselves in,,the best thing to do is call an ambulance & make a "mental hygene arrest".Its not as bad as it sounds,,they will pick the person up & take them for an evaluation & released that same day.They will then be on their way to getting better. They may just need some meds or a councilor. Id break it off with him tho because he doesnt sound too stable right now & needs to get his act together before having a relationship. The way he is threatening & putting her on that sort of guilt trip,,its just too much drama that your friend doesnt need to deal with.I also agree with Laurie.
2007-01-11 23:39:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good that the guy won't kill the lady but himself.. right?
What if the guy will always try to kill her everytime they fight then that would be a greater problem.
Well, no mo fighting.
Even if they fight, he will actually not kill himself.
Don't worry.
2007-01-11 23:46:26 · answer #3 · answered by sianpu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey do you really think he is serious or do you think hes just blowing off steam? Its best to stay out of the fight or its just going to bring you down just be there friend sweety. And if it gets bad enough and he tries to commit suicide call the the [police ok friend.]
2007-01-11 23:37:40 · answer #4 · answered by heartsslayer2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like he's using that tactic as something to keep her in the relationship, or he just wants attention, or he's serious.
Let your friend sort this out with him alone. You are not needed there, but tell her they do need to talk about their differences and his re-occuring threat.
2007-01-11 23:34:51 · answer #5 · answered by Kipper to the CUP! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly thats a ruff one . ive never been in that type of situation but if i was i wuld sit n talk 2 em on da real tip she shouldnt be wit him jus because she feels bad 4 him thoe ..... i suggest the common line "its not u its me " hopefully that will work . good luck
2007-01-11 23:38:23 · answer #6 · answered by bandolera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the boyfriend is just trying to make your friend guilty or be sorry so, she would blame it all on herself and so on. your friend will probably telling her boyfriend that she is sorry right now.
2007-01-11 23:36:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend need to get her boy friend some help. Thank you for being a concerned friend.
2007-01-11 23:36:24 · answer #8 · answered by miss out spoken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's bull...He obviously doesn't care about your friend, because if he did, he'd understand that would hurt her worse than anyone else. She's needs to tell him to get real or else just drop him.
2007-01-11 23:34:57 · answer #9 · answered by Jackson 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
better get a restraining order cause cowards like that usually dont like to go out alone
2007-01-11 23:36:00 · answer #10 · answered by rockstar_livin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋