My ex-bf was the one who ended our relationship. We dated for one month & it never went past kissing cuz he knew I wanna save myself for marriage. Yet, even after it was over he would still say hi to me on msn. Last week he called me, (it has been almost a year since the breakup), & he asked me to go see a movie with him. I went, he picked me up, then he drove me home. On the drive home, I asked him why he wanted to see me after all this time & he said "just to see you, I wanna see u every once in awhile". Now, since we're kinda friends does this mean that I can ask him to do things too? He's in Asia now but he comes back in one month, should I ask him for coffee when he gets back? Why did he wanna see me after one year? Did he mean he only wants to see me when HE wants to, on his terms, or do u think he'll be happy if I ask him to hang out sometimes too?
2007-01-11 15:30:03 · 5 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he wants to see you either way. He wants his freedom so he can get laid elsewhere, but wants to keep an arm's length handle on you and see if either 1. You change your mind about sleeping with him, or 2. He might want to marry you some day. Depends on how he really feels about you. Maybe he admires that in you. Why don't you ask him? Not that you'll get an honest answer, but you know him better than us strangers on Yahoo Answers! Good Luck.
2007-01-11 15:37:33 · answer #1 · answered by Evil Wordmonger, LTD LOL 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you want to do something with him when he's home, there's not harm in asking him. Your question might be answered in his response to you. Did he break up with you because you wouldn't sleep with him? If so, he lacks character, but you can still be friends with him, but remember that in the future. Don't give in to him. Maybe he's grown a little in a year's time and maybe he's starting to respect you more in your decision not to sleep with him after only a month of dating. Not knowing him, I can't say. Just be careful. If he still the same person he was a year ago, if you give in and sleep with him now, you'll probably only regret it. Be friends, but nothing more is my advice.
2007-01-11 16:57:32 · answer #2 · answered by First Lady 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If there aren't any little ones in touch, then i'm able to't see why any contact might want to be mandatory. So no, i don't believe of they must be conserving in contact like that, extraordinarily because it is bothering the recent significant different. they are an ex-significant different for a reason, there is somewhat no reason to objective to carry on to any type of relationship. There aren't any little ones, so there is not any reason to save in contact. i imagine that they ought to both stop speaking with one yet another, and basically flow on with their lives..
2016-12-02 03:52:24 · answer #3 · answered by duperne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be calm okay.its practically normal to be friends with your ex,of course it is dififcult because of what you went through as couple.So just treat him as your friend no special favors just because he is your ex treat him like you always treat your friends and dont try to force another relationship on him.At first maybe you wont feel at ease but in due time you will get along well.Its like you were married and you had a child with him and you are now divorced but you still need to stay in contact with each other as friends.
2007-01-11 15:40:16 · answer #4 · answered by KATEL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've be in the same type of situation. Do you still have feelings for you ex? I would say run away. It's not worth the pain.
2007-01-11 15:46:33 · answer #5 · answered by kggonzo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋