I started dateing this guy from work, then moved in w/ him after 2 months of dateing him. We dated for 3yrs off & on. I caught him cheating & caught myself being a ***** to him. Well we finally broke up for good & about 2-3 months after we broke up, I ran into him & we started talking again. It's pretty much friends w/ benefits, but the problem is.... After 8 months we've been broken up I realize my faults in the past relationship & he has to I think. I've also realized that I still love him w/ all my heart & I still love his family w/ passion & I think he still loves me. But something happened between his parents & I, i'm not aloud to go back to his parents house. Thing question is I LOVE HIM, DIE FOR HIM, GIVE HIM MY WHOLE WORLD IF I COULD, BUT I'M SCARED IF I TELL HIM THAT I STILL WANT TO BE W/ HIM & I'M SORRY FOR EVERYTHING I'VE DONE & WE START DATEING AGAIN, IF IT DOESN'T WORK OUT IN A RELATIONSHIP THEN WE WOULDN'T BE FRIENDS AGAIN. I wouldn't be able to deal w/ not being friends.
2007-01-11 15:29:14 · 5 answers · asked by Elizabeth C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just take it slow.
If you remained just friends with him, you would eventually lose him anyway. He would be bound to find a sexual girlfriend down the road and she would want you out of his life. You would lose him anyway. See?
It would be best, if you gradually got back together as a couple.
Tell him how you feel later on down the road. Like in a few weeks.
It sounds like the relationship is worth saving.
Good Luck.
2007-01-11 15:37:56 · answer #1 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. There are so many other guys out there that once your eyes open you won't have time for them all. Punishing yourself time and time again is very unhealthy. Hind sight is 20/20. you see all of your mistakes now but the cycle is just going to repeat time and time again. You can't change a leopard's spots.
Good luck.
2007-01-11 23:37:48 · answer #2 · answered by TIM'S HOUSE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The parents will always be there trying to end it. I suggest stepping back and moving on.
2007-01-11 23:33:26 · answer #3 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can di is tell him and see how it goes from there. Theres no kind of advice that someone can give you.
2007-01-11 23:33:55 · answer #4 · answered by azn_butterfly2124 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont understand ur question
2007-01-11 23:34:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋