is there a sign or something?
I love him so much and I feel that he's my soul mate is that enough?
but I dont know if he feels the same about me or not :(
but I used to tell my self that when a girl loves a boy it's mean that he loves her too but now I don't think so :'(
2007-01-11 15:28:26 · 17 answers · asked by novalian 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The easiest way to find out: ask...communicate. Seriously.
2007-01-11 15:30:55 · answer #1 · answered by What, what, what?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is kind of an odd thing. It's different for everyone. Some people need jewelry in order to know they are loved. Others just need kind words once a month. Again - it's different for everyone.
Several years ago - a boyfriend broke up with me. When we were together - he didn't tell me that he loved me very often. I grew wise during that time - and realized that what he said was not nearly as important as what he did. About a year after we split - he took me out and told me that he loved me. I told him that was nice - but it was much more important to me that somebody RESPECT me - and have my trust.
To me - Lust is not love. Butterflies in your stomach is not love. Feeling giddy when you're with someone is not love. All of those things might go along with love - but they are not love.
Respect and trust going both ways - is love. And then if you become physically involved - that is yet a deeper love. But respect and trust - I believe - are the basis.
But like I said - other girls feel loved when they get jewelry. It's different for everyone!
2007-01-11 23:38:41 · answer #2 · answered by liddabet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost love is very complicated thing. Nothing about love is simple it takes hard work and a ton of understanding. If you have feeling for this person you have to muster up the courage to tell them how you feel. Love doesn't happen over night, and you can't rush it. So if your not sure and not ready to tell him be patient. Because after all the old saying goes patience is a virtue. I have been with my mate for almost a year and we have to work very hard to keep things going. Good luck!!!
2007-01-11 23:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by kitty k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you are looking for balance... No balance in love I afraid..
Good signs are:
1. Does he care? does he notice when you are sad/mad/happy?
2. How open is he to your little vices?
3. Do little things about you annoy him (like you eating loudly)?
4. more of a giver or looking to receive only?
5. Does he really respect you?
6. Does he listens?
7. Sparks in his eyes when he sees you?
now, don't full for easy stuff like presents and don't look at things like wanting some space as signs for not loving you. This is very normal and pushing too much would not help.
2007-01-11 23:41:09 · answer #4 · answered by Gil Amish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't mean that he loves you back and it hurts. Well, are you friends? I'm guessing yes. He probably does love you if you're good friends. Some guys won't admit it. My best friend tells me he loves me everyday. It's pretty cool. But he also talks about the girl he likes everyday...it kills me. Try to wait for a little while...you could figure out that its a different kind of love...you probably know i'm not right and don't want to hear that but still....good luck hun
2007-01-11 23:34:52 · answer #5 · answered by me27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you love him when you feel comfortable and it might take some time, but if he loves you back he will say it to you. Just wait. True love only comes once in a life time, if this is it you don't want to pass it by.
2007-01-11 23:33:41 · answer #6 · answered by Taylor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, No it's not enough. You don't have any idea if he feels the same about you and thats not a good thing. Thats not enough, you sound crazy! Find someone who will let you know how he feels about you...you deserve to be treated right.
2007-01-11 23:36:04 · answer #7 · answered by laura k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love, there's a feeling.
You're feeling desperate to be loved, you're loving but you're not recieving. Take a step back and relax ok!
Love comes with time and commitment.
2007-01-11 23:31:37 · answer #8 · answered by Kipper to the CUP! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what does you loving him have to do with him loving you? people get the word "love" twisted the only real meaning of love is defined by this question-.ask yourself this- if you love someone would you give your life for them? if you can answer yes without thinking about it then you truly love them ask yourself about him would he give his life for you? if your not sure then he probably only cares for you -love is a whole 'nutha level sweetheart!
2007-01-11 23:33:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confess your feelings to this person,Ask how they feel.
Life is to short to wait around for the unknown
2007-01-11 23:35:29 · answer #10 · answered by SPORK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋