Ok, I met this guy in a bar 5 days ago, he's been calling me everyday since then, we've hung out twice, and yesterday we slept together (cuz i felt bad for him). Now he is talking about wanting to be steady with me, even wanting to marry me, telling me i'm the most perfect girl, etc etc, and saying how he's not worthy enough for me. Also, he's introduced me already to most of his family/friends, while I didnt introduce him to anybody at all. He says he misses me all the freaking time, calls me just to say hi, wtf get away from me!! (I am 22, he's 28). What should I say to make him slow down? What the hell is wrong with him????
2007-01-11 15:21:40 · 8 answers · asked by yurika 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Next time you don't want someone, try not screwing him.
2007-01-11 15:28:47 · answer #1 · answered by lavendergirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time to run you just described a textbook example of a dependent personality. Real problem! Since I never met the guy it is impossible to tell how badly his mental problems are but could easy be bad enough for violence. Time to disappear from his radar screen.
2007-01-11 23:27:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww..be nice to him. That's bad to lead him on when you're not that interested. Break up with the poor guy. Don't lead him on. And also explain to him, that girls are usually turned off by guys who like them too much, too early. He would be a little freaked out if a girl immediately fell in love with him right?
2007-01-11 23:35:07 · answer #3 · answered by Megan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you slept with him because you felt sorry for him. I'm sure that will make him go away pretty quickly.
Honestly, what the hell is wrong with you? I would never sleep with someone because I felt bad for them.
2007-01-11 23:27:08 · answer #4 · answered by wileycoyote_the_supergenius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That has to be a weird situation. Maybe if you werent so perfect this wouldnt happen, just kidding ;) But seriously you should tell him you just want to be friends. And it couldnt be that bad unless you see him regularly like at work or something?
2007-01-11 23:28:20 · answer #5 · answered by sevencostanza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he'll be a stalker next...u slept with him knowing he was a bit obsessed now u just put gas on the fire....Girl u better move cahnge your number ss# email address and everything(lol)
2007-01-11 23:27:28 · answer #6 · answered by SingleMommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is pushing way too hard, I really don't like the sounds of this. I Think he could spell serious trouble for you, ask him to back off and if that's not acceptable to him then tell him to find someone else.
2007-01-11 23:36:22 · answer #7 · answered by al b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your not interested and that he needs to back the f--- off. Stay the hell away from that guy.
2007-01-11 23:26:23 · answer #8 · answered by Castle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋