I feel traumatized.have nightmares about how me mum MADE me eat a whole chocolate cake on my birtday
nnow when in a store I blubber up and down the aisles when I see any chocolate, hersheys sends me into spastic fits
muy eyes roll in the back of my head
2007-01-11 15:16:59 · 17 answers · asked by S A V E T H E T A R T 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
How do you know your eyes roll back ? Stay out of stores, You will have lots of money for bars, See Problem now its all better cheers ! Lets go get a drink !
2007-01-11 15:24:08 · answer #1 · answered by dontknow86 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are all so unique and respond in unique and diverse ways to events in our lives. I wouldn't want to belittle you by mentioning that this sounds a bit over done or make a mockery of myself by taking you seriously when you are not. At any rate I have found that with any trauma to your childhood - your child needs a rescue. The child had no control and a lack of control makes us feel helpless. If you could relive the event and go in as the advocate of the child (in your mind's eye) and proceed to do what you would for that child as an adult you may regain some power. This is not some hocus pocus thing but it stands to reason that the mind is where the trouble comes from that provoke the reaction of re-living it. If you could go into to that thought and take charge, standing up for the child and even forbidding and scolding the mother for such a ridiculous act then you take back the power that overpowered you. The power of your will. Go ahead and rescue that little one. She deserves to be treated with care.
2007-01-11 17:22:37 · answer #2 · answered by wingsovgrace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of your story sounds made up. Instead of ridiculing you for it I think it is just another symptom of trauma. You have to get past your childhood, not forget it, but learn to live with it and not let it control you. Be the best person that you can be and you'll see that what happened in the past isn't who you are.. you'll be a lot happier when you become who you know you can be.
2007-01-11 15:33:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
are u serious? that doesnt really sound right...i dont know about the eyes rolling back into the head thing but as far as ur mother forcing you to eat an entire cake thats messed up! i've had many problems in my past with abuse and i have flash backs all the time i think your just having flash backs.
2007-01-11 15:22:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes you can. With therapy and time you can recover.
Good luck to you. I wish you the best.
Have you tried Hershey's specail dark? It's the best.
2007-01-11 15:21:16 · answer #5 · answered by alias_dictus_tony 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have Freudian thoughts of having sex with your "mum" while either eating or wrestling in chocolate cakes...
2007-01-11 15:20:34 · answer #6 · answered by That Guy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgiveness is a good goal to work at. Sometimes forgiveness comes quickly, but when you are truly traumatized, you have to work at it every day.
2007-01-11 15:25:46 · answer #7 · answered by Catfish_Woman154 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah I think so im battling some childhood abuse myself I know it does get better but it helps to talk to someone that you trust and wont judge you
2007-01-11 15:19:39 · answer #8 · answered by phenom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need therapy. At least chocolate won't tempt you as it does most of us.
2007-01-11 15:19:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh. maybe watch willie wonka chocolate factory.
it may make you like chocolate again.
don't pay attn to your mum. it's not your fault she's like that.
2007-01-11 15:21:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋