I really like this girl, she liked me, too, until this "friend" of mine asked her out first, which really got under my nerves. I can tell that it's not gonna last, and after about a month after they break up (I know to give it time), I hope to relay my true emotions for her, but I don't know what to say. What should I say?
2007-01-11 14:43:31 · 18 answers · asked by Danny G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
whatever you do.. try not to come on too strong... dont confess undying love for her. just... put it out there plain and simple. dont put any pressure on her. "listen... i like you. i would've said something sooner, but when *insert name* asked you out, i didnt want to screw things up between the two of you so i kept my feelings to myself. now that you're free, however, im more comfortable sharing how i feel and i was wondering if you would like to *insert activity* some time." haha... i didnt mean to complete dictate what you should say. thats just an example. it's straightforward and it shows that you're considerate of her and his relationship (which is good.) good luck!
2007-01-11 14:51:29 · answer #1 · answered by harpielingo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-02 03:49:42 · answer #2 · answered by cheathem 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel about her from bottom of your heart. How much you love, care and enjoy being around her. You always be there for her if she needs you. You are willing to do anything to make her happy. Describe to her how she attracts you mentally and physically. Explain to her how important she is in your life. Don't just waste your time to think about yourself, need to take action and tell her. If it is too hard for you to say it, write an email or a letter to her. Hope my suggestion will work for you. Good Luck!
2007-01-11 15:19:55 · answer #3 · answered by Dragon 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her first of all, how much you love her. Then tell her how you felt after she started going out with this other guy. Tell her that you were sorry when they broke up but happy at the thought that you might get the chance to be with her. Just tell her how you ahve felt since the whole thing started. Honesty is best!
2007-01-11 14:49:07 · answer #4 · answered by XxXTaRaXxX 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just walk up to her, say that you wanna speak with her for a short while... then say that you've been interested in her for a long time already and would like to know whether she didn't mind going for a date with you... you'll need a lot of courage but it's worth a shot--and if she rejects you, don't just walk away... ask her why, and understand that maybe she needs time to sort out her thoughts about her failed relationship... be persistent, kind, understanding, and self-confident, and you'll succeed :) gd luck!
2007-01-11 14:56:19 · answer #5 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be a Friend 1st so you don't end up a rebound. Also let her know that you are there for her and that you really do care about her and when she is ready to be more than friends let her know what you feel from your heart.
2007-01-11 14:50:16 · answer #6 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing! Absolute Nothing!
Us woman know when we like somebody and there is nothing a man can say to get us to like them. If we not feeling you that we just don't want to be bother.
How did you know she really liked you? Did she actually tell you that?
If she really liked you then why did she go out with your friend?
She didn't have a mouth to tell him "no I don't want to go out with you"?
Are sure you want this girl? She couldn't even speak up and say she wanted to date you?
You just need to move on, there are waaaaaay to many nice pretty young ladies out here to just be stuck on one.
YOU SHOULD BUILD A BRIDGE AND GET OVER!!(not to be harsh)
2007-01-11 15:02:02 · answer #7 · answered by HOOD RAT 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
women are a lot smarter than you give them credit for, they don't just turn into Jello because you come up with something clever to say. You don't have to "say" anything, but if you do, how about genuinly wishing her good luck with her relationship.
2007-01-11 15:50:56 · answer #8 · answered by al b 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell her what you're thinking. Nothing could be better than what's really in your own heart. Good luck.
2007-01-11 14:47:07 · answer #9 · answered by L 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell her that her eyes are like two limpid pools of industrial waste.
2007-01-11 14:46:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋