after my husband died.... I don't know why but everyday I have been having dreams of him... Its not good dreams though. He is being mean to me in my dreams... Giving me attitudes, everytime I try to get closet o him he brushes me off and just looks like he hates me. When he was alive , we was very happy and he always wanted to be close to me. We were bestfriends and loved each other very much.... I miss him so much... He would never treat me so awful... When I go to sleep I want to have good dreams of us together... but instead i get bad dreams... What is this??? I know that I can't be with him phyically anymore. So when I sleep i want to have good memories of us in my sleep/dream... somebody tell me why... am i having dreams of my husband being mean to me.
2007-01-11 14:37:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
My guess is that some part of you is angry at him for leaving. I'm sure it's not conscious, but very normal. Maybe some form of rejection. Many blessing to you.
2007-01-11 14:42:00 · answer #1 · answered by lady_blu_iz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read Sylvia Browne's "Book of Dreams". In the book there is an example dream that is very similar to your dream. Sylvia gives a great reason, but for the life of me I can't remember what she said the reason was! This book will give you all the tools to better understand every aspect of this dream as well as other dreams!
I'm sorry this dream bothers you! I'm sorry for your loss. Sylvia Browne would say that he's around you... everyone that we knew that has passed on is nearer than we think!
Take care!
Love,
Gregory
PS.
Sylvia Browne says there are no such things as demons or the devil. There's a perfectly good explanation for you when you take the time and really explore it. The Book of Dreams is a great way to start. One thing that I do remember from the book is that there are release dreams. Release dreams balance the opposite idea out by creating a scenario that is so appalling that you would never imagine it in a normal waking state. The release dream takes care of what you won't allow your self to think. Just immediately cross off this list the "bad dreams are demonic" suggestions!!! Much love to you!
2007-01-11 14:48:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes dreams appear as the opposite of what we're actually feeling. Meaning maybe you're actually mad at him for leaving. But, in the same breath, I have to agree with 'Scott Justice'. If this has been going on for some time or does continue, you may consider consulting a therapist to find out just what these dreams mean to you.
Namaste
2007-01-11 14:48:32 · answer #3 · answered by cudala 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a Christian I can tell you it's one of two things.
1. In your mind. The dreams come from you.
2. It is demonic attacks in dream from.
If you aren't a born again Christian I suggest you become one. Jesus died on the cross so that you won't have to go to hell. All you have do to do is accept that in faith and ask Jesus to come into your life and be your Lord and opey his teachings. The power of God can easily fix this for you. But don't be a Christian just for that. Do it because you understand you are a sinner and God is a just judge and will punish all who disobeyed his laws(10 commandments). Jesus paid you fine. You don't have to get punished if you accept that.
2007-01-11 14:45:16 · answer #4 · answered by mathias1314 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good Question.... I'm sorry I don't have the answer for you. I just know dreams are a way of the human physic (mind) to work out un-resolved issues of our life's. I would pray, asking for God to reveal to me what this means and ask for more pleasant dreams.
2007-01-11 14:47:30 · answer #5 · answered by iamME 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 00:52:53 · answer #6 · answered by vishvanath 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dreams are part of your unconscious, ask in the psychology section, not the religion section. See a therapist, not a priest. I'm sure people here could tell you plenty of things, but a therapist could actually help you cope with such things.
2007-01-11 14:42:23 · answer #7 · answered by Scott Justice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These dreams are from the devil, he wants to destroy your wonderful memory's and make you have bad ones.
Pray at night before you go to bed and ask God to protect you from the devil and these bad dreams.
I will be praying for you too, and I will put you on a prayer line too. If you don't want this them e mail me & let me know OK
God Bless & know that I will be Praying with you !
2007-01-11 14:46:23 · answer #8 · answered by Bridget 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give yourself time. When we dream it's our brain processing tid bits of what we think, see, talk about etc for God only knows how long.
Pray to God for help, assurance, guidance, strength. Ask him to bring you good dreams for your rest as your day time is spent dealing with the loss. Ask God to bring you peace in slumber.
God Bless
2007-01-11 14:45:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guilt....?
2007-01-11 14:39:48 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋