Ok well I am in the 7th grade(yes I can handle a BF and school).But the thing is he has asked me out at the begining of the school year and I said no because I didnt want a BF. But now I like him and I want to go out with him.....but I dont know if he wants to go out with me.I have liked him since the 3rd grade. What should I do ask him out and be hurt(or not) or just like him and wonder"what if...."
2007-01-11 14:36:18 · 9 answers · asked by meganbookreader 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well all you have to do is ask. He was probably afraid too when he asked you out, so don't be shy. let him know that you still like him and want to go out sometime.
2007-01-11 14:42:48 · answer #1 · answered by sMarTie_gUrl001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since you have known him since the third grade, I dont think there is any harm in calling him. Some homework questions, did he hear the gossip at school, normal stuff you might talk about. Just be his friend as you always have, if he is still interested he will get the hint. One can never have enough friends anyway.. My advice for anyone your age though is to just be friends. You have ALOT of years to date and have boyfriends which will come and go. But a true friend from third grade on through life is rare and should be considered a gift.
2007-01-11 14:45:54 · answer #2 · answered by Briandking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you changed your mind and you want to hang out with him now. Tell him you were stressed out at the beginning of the school year and not in the right frame of mind to be in a relationship back then. But now you'd be ok if you two could hang out and be friends, but nothing serious cause you're only in the seventh grade which is too young to be serious about relationships.
2007-01-11 14:42:34 · answer #3 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're totally sure your feelings for him are real, go for it. Don't tell him when you're around other people. Do tell him when you're somewhere quiet with little distractions. Be honest, but don't go on and on for hours about how you've been in love with him since the two of you were in diapers. That will scare him away. Just say, "I like you more than a friend and hope we can go out sometime. If you don't feel the same for me, that's OK. I'd like to remain friends with you." If he does say yes then good luck !
2007-01-11 14:41:08 · answer #4 · answered by milli 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey!!! I have the same problem as you!!! This bot, Brett, I like him alot, but iam afraid that he might not be interested in me!!! So I asked my friends who I can trust and ask them if they think he is interested. Andwatch him, If he looks at you, he probally is checking you out, But if he doesn't look at you, i wouldn't go for it!!! But, if you think he likes you, go for it and take a risk!!!
2007-01-11 14:44:36 · answer #5 · answered by Kelly B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in 7th grade too, I know what u mean! Ask him out, duh! Be like,"Hey, do you still like me? Cuz I kinda like u and i am now ready 4 a relationship."
2007-01-11 14:45:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOST LIKELY, he still likes you. Take a risk, he asked you out before, he'll probably accept happily ^_^
2007-01-11 14:40:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u kinda miseed your chance but there is always second chances. i would go for it.
2007-01-11 14:40:11 · answer #8 · answered by carebear_destroyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you like him...
2007-01-11 14:39:57 · answer #9 · answered by BLEHH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋