This is gettin a big problem. please please help me! & dnt say im gettin jealous cuz thats not it!?

Question

i have a bf,mike,& im going2 start from the begingin.he had this "bff"& he used2 go out wit her but they decided2 stay "friends" even tho they still were flirting.then he met me& when he did he was still close friends wit her& kinda close too.then after months he asked me out.& i told him that if he cheated on me that i would break up wit him& he cheated on first gf wit her BEST FRIEND& i cant go threw that.well that girl that was gf&his "bff" invited him2 her party.her party was the kinda party when u turn 16&ur a mexican girl.i dnt kno how2 spell it but he was in it so he had2 get paired up wit sum girl.&he kne bout the party awhile ago& promised me he wasnt goin&then told me a couple2 ago that he was goin& would feel bad if he didnt cuz there such close friends.i told him to choose me or her.im scared bcuz he doesnt think of her as a slut he thinks of her as a friend& she might try to kiss him& he wnt kno wat2 do cuz they were friends& he will kiss her.is it wrong2 not want him2 go?

Answer 1

This is something that will benefit you greatly to learn now. It's better to let him go. If he kisses that girl than you know he doesn't care about you as much as he claims to. If he doesn't well you know he's with you because he wants to be. It seems like it's unfair to you but in truth it's the best thing for you.

Answer 2

Look, if he is kissing another girl he is not the guy for you! A true BF will stay with you all the way, always hang out and always take the chance to give you that look that makes you feel all special inside. I may not know you, but I know that you are a Beautiful young woman who deserves better. Best of luck, make the right decision before he cheats.

Answer 3

she may not kiss him but if your not invited thats messed up .Dump him anyway he sounds like an ***