this friend i met is a sweet fellow but i think that he might have a crush on me. however, i don't really think we could work out but i still want to be around him yet i don't want to hurt him. best way to keep a friendship a friendship?
2007-01-11 13:56:09 · 7 answers · asked by V.I.P. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should tell him... because if you keep on being just his friend it will be painfull for him to be around you all the time... and his pain will get worse seeing you dating other guys... just be honest and let him know... i know how he feels... dont do anything that will lead him on it will just crush him when he realizes that there is nothing there. if you dont have feelings for him that are more than friendship you should let him know as soon as you can... who knows mabe he will still be your friend.
2007-01-11 14:12:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm taking it that you are assuming and since you think he is sweet I would not confront him with it right now as you might be reading it wrong or he may be the one, you mentioned you want to be around him so he has something you are interested in.
I hope you are not one of those females who go after the "hot" guys"wild" guys type and find they never happen,but if you do you will soon realize it is the one with the personality and attitude that is the most important and before you know it he is hot in your eyes.That is the type you want,everyone might think what are you doing and in a short while the ppl that was questioning it is jealous of it I wouldn't want to see you miss out on something that could be fulfilling to you and question it through out your life for if this is it and you pass it up and down the road you realize things it might be too late...keep things the way they are and when the time comes and it is for sure he wants to go ahead with you,you will know him better and your heart will speak to you but reguardless...Be honest.If you still feel the way you do today Let him know how you feel.Let him know that you enjoy being with him and you cherish your friendship and you do not want to lose that (cause we all know when you make a great friendship and take it to the next level and it does not work everything is lost) you can not continue what you had in the first place as everything changes.But if your feelings change and you find you are wanting to spend more and more time with him or want to just be with him for just because reasons you might want to double think things.
2007-01-11 22:31:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be transparent. let him know that he's sweet and stuff but friendship is preffered at his moment. as the saying goes "....relationships comes and goes, but true friendship lasts forever..."
2007-01-11 22:02:34 · answer #3 · answered by Arez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read my question( i asked early, love hate realtionship), if a guy has crush on you,,, it is very painful if he has to see you , talk you daily.. so if you not interested move on, leave him alone, it will hurt for few days/week, then he will be ok, but if you keep talking to him,, he will hurt each day.. it is my expereince,, why girl do this to boys.. so bad..
2007-01-11 22:00:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u don't know if it want work out and if it does not work out at lest u try and if he is sweet u and him can still be friends
2007-01-11 22:08:40 · answer #5 · answered by mick b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got to be honest. Don't lead him on it will make things worse.
2007-01-11 22:01:26 · answer #6 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
BE HONEST.
2007-01-11 21:59:56 · answer #7 · answered by raspberryflavr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋