With my ex. we had split for about a year and i had my eye on this one girl who i cant stop thinking about her but she showed no intressed. She dont know that i am back with my ex and she rang me asking to meet. Now i dont know what to do cos i dont want to hurt the girl im with now but i have been wantin this other for a long time HELP !!!!
2007-01-11 13:51:34 · 11 answers · asked by dan T 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be friend with the girl...then u can tell her the whole story..if she a true friend..she wont mind...
2007-01-11 14:26:10 · answer #1 · answered by gulp2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you be going back out with your ex you are only going backwards. It must of broke for a reason you know. But its up to you. i reckon you should get out of your relationship with your ex and think about what you want and then feel what your heart wants and then if you keep thinking of the other girl then go for her.
Youll keep thinking of "what if" when your with your ex and its not fear on her for you to feel with the other.
Think about it
2007-01-11 21:57:52 · answer #2 · answered by Nat555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with the girl you like as a friend. Don't cheat and put any moves on her, but if you feel yourself falling for her more and having her fall for you, then give her a chance. If your x really likes you and she came back, then she can wait a little longer I would think.
2007-01-11 21:54:48 · answer #3 · answered by Nuke21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you and your ex split..there was a reason for that. its probably just going to happen again. i'm a girl and i'd be mad if i was your ex but i'll get over it and if you still like this girl who just caled you then take a chance with her. good luck!
2007-01-11 21:56:19 · answer #4 · answered by Callie P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u and your ex split, it must have been for a reason. i say give this new girl a shot. ya never know what could happen :)
2007-01-11 23:06:35 · answer #5 · answered by jeneric803 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the question is lust or love. lust tends to fade out pretty quickly and you are probably feeling very very flattered but think what this would do to your wife. if you really want to go for it with this girl do the decent thing and finish your marriage first. good luck
2007-01-11 23:06:29 · answer #6 · answered by elaine g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know whether you're looking for a long term thing or not.
However, i guess all i would say to you is that go with your heart... never leave someone you love for someone you like... because that someone you like may leave you for someone they love... i hope this helps!!
2007-01-12 04:29:17 · answer #7 · answered by gorgeous_ami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are back with your ex so tell the other girl that she wasn't interested before so tuff Shi*. She must of heard that you got back together
2007-01-11 23:07:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key is to take ure time and play it cool.
2007-01-11 21:54:56 · answer #9 · answered by tomy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were in your position i would sh*g them both, but i`m a sexist bastard who wants some thumbs down
2007-01-11 21:58:28 · answer #10 · answered by qwerty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋