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Me and him are good friend/ we talk to each often
but i dont know how do get him to notice me the other way

2007-01-11 13:47:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

13 answers

ASk him if he likes you.

2007-01-11 13:50:20 · answer #1 · answered by Mark B 4 · 0 0

You cannot get a guy to like you. It's either the guy will see you as the wonderful girl that you are and take interest or not. Just be yourself and let him come to have romantic feelings for you naturally. You do not need to try and force or push him into having romantic feelings for you. Even if you did that, you would come to wonder did he really like you or was it because he was somewhat forced into it. You want a guy to like you and just want to be with your romantically in a natural way right? Not to be somehow manipulated, forced or pressured into liking you like that - that does not make for a lasting relationship.

However, you are on a great start if that is what you want. Continue being friends and let the friendship blossom into romantic love if that is what it is supposed to become. Those make for long, lasting, fulfilling relationships in the end. Just be patient a bit. And do not tell him that you have romantic feelings for him or ask him out - Big No, No. You may chase him away by doing that.

All The Best!

2007-01-11 13:57:05 · answer #2 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 0 0

You don;t get him to like you. If he is a good friend to you then he already does like you in some sort of way. Just try talking to hima nd telling him that you like him and spill all that is on your head. If you are as good of friends as you say you are, this will not push him away any further. He may get little avoidant only so he can analyze what he thinks about you since it has most likely come as a surprise to him. If he becomes avoidant, he'll be back with an answer in no time.

He probably does like you I would assume. Guys usually don't hang around many girls unless they like them in some sort of way.

2007-01-11 13:53:15 · answer #3 · answered by Robert B 2 · 0 0

All I can say is just be yourself and try flirting a little bit more. And ask him if there will ever be an "US". And let him know that you like him and would like to pursue a relationship with him.

2007-01-11 13:53:37 · answer #4 · answered by Britney 2 · 0 0

Start talking about what kind of people you guys like dating, you know friend talk...at first. Let him start saying what type of girls he likes. If it doesn't fit your description then say, 'what about a girl like this, or who does stuff like this, or a girl like me.'

Or, get him really really really really drunk. Ask him if he likes you directly then. If he remember later what you said, then just say that you were drunk also.

Or just tell him. Good luck.

2007-01-11 13:53:56 · answer #5 · answered by TheSilverBeetles 4 · 0 0

heres what you do you say do you want to do some thing and say just as friends then after a couple weeks if theres a dance coming up ask if would want to go with you

2007-01-11 13:52:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Try a new look get new clothing. Try something new and see if he notice. Flirt with him.

2007-01-11 13:54:30 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 2 · 0 0

While alone with him one night over dinner. Get really close and give him the kiss of his life.

2007-01-11 13:51:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Ask him if he wants to play spin the bottle.

2007-01-11 13:56:18 · answer #9 · answered by Raul D 4 · 0 0

Easy. just hang out with him and try to find a common interest. dont try to come on too fast or he would freak out, so just take it one day at a time and ask him if he wants to see a movie or something. duh.

2007-01-11 13:52:45 · answer #10 · answered by Fromadude 2 · 0 0

you can't if he likes you he likes you and if he doesn't he doesn't!!!!you may not like this answer but isn't it what you came for?i'm sick of ppl picking best answers just cause it's what they wanted to hear. how about you actually pick the best answer? you came to get your question answered not to hear: I'm dure he already likes you

2007-01-11 13:52:14 · answer #11 · answered by Lone Hunter 4 · 1 0

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