I go to community college and all these younger women holler at me and it makes me feel a little guilty, but whenever I try talking to a woman my own age she gets all stuck up just because I don't have a house and a car so I can drive her around move her and her kids all in. I didn't knock her up, and I've taken good enough care of myself that I don't look as old as I am. I don't lie about my age... I date these women, and we go on agreeing about how wrong it is...and then the fact that its wrong is a mutual turn on...we make out, and nothing happens after that. How do I meet a 30 something woman that isn't in that "Thank God I didn't get knocked up by some deadbeat like my girlfriends" mode who can actually enjoy a cheap date without sizing me up and being all serious. What happened to all the Punk Rockers and Roots Gyals, they can't all be jaded burnt out lushes with kids by 3 different daddies can they?
2007-01-11 13:46:54 · 9 answers · asked by Baddest_Bandulu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, your problem is not the lack of stuff you own, although truthfully it doesn't help and some women are quite superficial about material things. It's really just a sign of the fact that you're not established. Most women over thirty want established guys. If we wanted the ones who are still trying to figure themselves out, we'd date the twenty somethings (I heard there's a lot of oldie chasers, so we can). It's a good thing that you're going to community college to better yourself. You just have to do things in order. First finish your education, then get yourself established in the career that's right for you. Then you will have a lot to offer a woman who needs a kind of man she can depend on.
2007-01-11 14:04:21 · answer #1 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess by 30 something, yeah, we are all half done our lives! Would you prefer we waited to have children until the guys who are our own age have grown up enough to be a responsible parent, and partner? Hello, we can only have kids until we're 50 or so, we don't want to be sending our kids to college at 70 years old. We don't have forever to wait for some "guy" to grow up (and for all you sticklers out there on generalization, that's SOME guys, ok?? Sheesh!!) Perhaps you should realize that you are not entitled to a young fresh pretty women. Why should you? You are not shopping for a specific cut of beef for your steak, you've decided that you're ready to take a wife, and the selection parading by you on the dating sites don't measure up to your high standards. I bet you use an avatar on hear because you're as hideous as you seem to view others your own age? With your crappy MAN attitude, you don't deserve a decent woman, and a decent woman does not deserve you. She deserves better. This is not a buffet, for you to eat your fill. WE ARE HUMAN BEINGS NOT PUT HERE TO SERVE YOUR POMPOUS ***!
2007-01-11 22:02:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're asking the wrong question. You should be asking: How do I find a woman that will date me even though I am a 30 something man with no car and I live with my mom and who will like me even though our date will be at McDonald's?
That is the question but I think you will have to date an older woman who don't mind taking care of a guy who is too picky.
2007-01-11 21:52:46 · answer #3 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off let me tell you that I am a single mom of 3 kids and its guys like you that make us act like that. If you want to date a women, then you have to accept the fact that she is a "package" deal. You can't have her and not the kids. Try getting a job, car, and some place to live.
2007-01-11 21:51:42 · answer #4 · answered by confused angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried places like match.com or campuskiss.com? I personally prefer campuskiss because you can find people that just want to be friends. You could also try chatlines like yahoo to meet people and maybe go for coffee later on.
2007-01-11 21:52:12 · answer #5 · answered by ice_princess_sweetie_pie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all you need car! If you can't afford one save money up and get a least an old one. You need a car!
2007-01-11 21:51:40 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get a car serousley they think that you will need to be driven around everywhere and women deen a monley man not one withought a car
2007-01-11 21:50:24 · answer #7 · answered by Rusty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try online dating. you can meet people your ago who live close to you. a good website is
www.mate1.com
good luck
2007-01-11 21:50:36 · answer #8 · answered by Callie P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
search on.... want to meet woman...on dates or something.....and say with what qualities do yo want her between what ages.....good luck.
2007-01-11 21:51:03 · answer #9 · answered by abril b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋