I just met this really great guy and we have our first date coming up on tuesday!I really like him and pretty sure he really likes me so when do i tell him i have hep c?should i wait and see where the relationships going to go or should i tell him on our date? someone please help!!!!!
2007-01-11 13:34:22 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would wait until you both get to know each other better. You don't want to tell every person you go on a date with that you have hepatitis C. Thats your personal business and no one elses. So I would wait until you guys go on a couple more dates and when you think things are getting to the sexual level..let him know. But tell him before jumping in the bed. :)
Hope the first date goes well.
2007-01-11 13:39:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It must be very worrying for you now you have invested in the relationship, and by the sounds of it, however unplanned these feelings have been for you to begin with. Its a big thing to tell a guy!
Tell him on the second or third date, not strait away as first impressions are the ones that remain. Although you are the one who has it, you are also the one who is more adapted to the reality of it.
He on the other hand would be only hearing this for the first time and its likely to shock him. He would be concerned and perhaps ignorant about how it could be transmitted, about catching it himself.
Get to know him in a friendly way over a few dates. Then perhaps sit down and write him a letter explaining your condition; how you feel about him, any concerns you have of him catching it, concerns you have about how he will take the news and transmission risks and ways to protect transmission.
Be careful with how you tell him - but above all, tell him.
2007-01-11 13:57:17 · answer #2 · answered by Young Lass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait to see where it might go and if he tries to sleep with you before that tell him that you want to wait a while before you two have sex. I would say about the third or fourth date to tell him that you have hep c. And when you do let him know the ways it can be transmited and wheather or not a condom will protect him 100% also that it is no cure for this disease because you would be surprised at how many people dont realize that there is no cure for hep c.
2007-01-11 13:44:02 · answer #3 · answered by montana_infantry_man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As Soon As Possible! ASAP! I would hope that if I were the guy that you would have the integrity to call me before Tuesday and explain your situation.
I would almost bet if you wait till Tuesday, you'll see the balloon pop right in front of your face. If you contact him and explain the situation before then and he cannot accept your current illness situation, well, he wasn't worth the chase after all. Take care of #1 first.
2007-01-11 14:04:50 · answer #4 · answered by HowFuzzyWuzee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say wait and see where the relationship goes. If you tell him on the first date it will scare him away.
2007-01-11 13:41:42 · answer #5 · answered by andy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least give yourselves time to get to know each other and see if you really want to spend time together. I can't imagine say hi I'm so and so, I have herpes type c, and it's nice to meet you.
2007-01-11 14:04:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him right a way!!!
2007-01-11 13:37:58 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now!
Before you have any intimate relations!
2007-01-11 13:55:34 · answer #8 · answered by oldster 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right after you have sex for the first time.
2007-01-11 14:04:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no best time, every time is best to say something.
it better now then waiting.
take action now
2007-01-11 13:40:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋