Does He Still Want To Be With Me??

Question

I Broke Up With My Boyfriend last sunday, during a typical (pms spat) and after some considerable thought, i decided i still wanted to be with him..

I came home to tell him that i'd decided that, And we talked and he decided that no, he didnt want to be with me.

we've barely spoken since (we live together) only about general topics... i've told him how i feel and that im sorry, he said he hasnt had a chance to think about it..

hes still letting me sleep in his bed and lets me cuddle him when im going to sleep

I did ask "are you sure theres no chance of getting back together" he answered "i dont know"

i went to the clubs on Thursday night and he showed up and we ended up coming home together, he let me hold his hand and we ended up having intercourse..

do you think he's just playing games with me? and KNOWS he wants to be with me?

Or he doesnt want to be with me and doesnt know how to tell me?

Answer 1

i think hes playing games he sounds like he dont know what he wants

Answer 2

You mentioned that it started over a typical pms spat.
That sounds like the two of you have these spats often.

I would guess, that he is tired of the spats but still loves you.
I don't think you have lost him. He probably just wants some space to really think about the future you might have together.

I would talk to my gynocologist about these episodes you have. He/she will probably give you a prescription to treat the pms.
Tell your doctor that it is harming your relationship with your boyfriend. You will definitely get some relief from it.

Tell your boyfriend about your plan. That should help him relax and visualize a future with you once again.

Good luck and trust me. There IS treatment out there for your pms condition. You nor your relationship with your boyfriend should have to suffer any longer.

It sounds like he still loves you, to me.

Answer 3

I feel like he want you back but he is going to make you pay for doing him like that. You would have alot to think about if he would not have let you sleep i his bed or if he had not had sex with you. The best way to get over a person is to not have sex with them at all. Give him sometime

Answer 4

I would say yes. I believe that he still wants to be with you, but wants you to suffer a little for whatever the problem was the other night.

My bust guess is that he is using this to try and assert his "power." and control over the situation.

Believe me, if he really wanted you to be gone and out of his life, then you would have found your stuff thrown out of the house and someone else would more than likely be cuddling with him at night, going out with him and holding hands, and ultimately going home with him for a little ...

If you want to be with him, try to ride this out and it should be fine.

Answer 5

Of course he want to be with you! You just hurt him and he tryin to repair his broken heart ( or break yours ) and when he say i don't know or I havent thought about it hes doing some major lying cuz if hes still sleeping with you hes have many toughts about it!

Answer 6

think he still wants to be with u, no one has told the other one to get out yet, just think he holds onto things longer, and maybe u need to just let it go, stop asking him if he wants to be with u, isn't it obvious to u as shown by his actions?

Answer 7

now it is both ways on this situation he could be playing games or he want to be by himself to see what he can from u.is u trust him that might be differ but why did he say no

Answer 8

maybe he is just confused right now. give him a few mor days and if he doesnt make up his mind then you can send him home to his mama.

Answer 9

he playing games wit ya and he kno deep down he wan be with you, otherwise he wouldnt do the things he doin with you,

Answer 10

awww! don't worry he definitely wants to be with u.