how far did you go with boy(s) when you were 14?

Answer 1

I didn't.

Answer 2

How far anyone else has gone with a boy when they were 14 isn't really relevant. Your best bet is to NEVER do anything you feel even a bit uncomfortable about. This is where you have to listen with your brain, not your heart or your body, which can go into overdrive if you've gotten to the point of heavy kissing, makin out etc. That leads to heavy petting and ultimately to intercourse.

Don't respond to pressure or pity stories from any guy. I'd say the same if it was a male asking about females.

There are far fewer "Doing it" than alot of people around you will admit. The other thing you have to think about before the romance is responsibility. Even if you've never had a period yet, you CAN get pregnant if your body is going through it's first cycle of releasing an egg.

I can say that I've never ever found a woman that regrets holding off on any type of sex, but I have heard many many women that have regretted having sex too early.
You are the only that can make the choice as to when you are truly ready. Truly ready is when it's something you want to do, not something your man has been begging, pleading or threatening to leave you if you don't do it.
Make sure your decision is a result of being fully informed. NOT from a blog or other 14 year olds, but from factual medical books and actually knowing what goes into preparing to take anything to a higher level. Sexually transmitted Diseases is first on the list of what to learn. Some STD's last forever, some can prevent you from ever being able to have children, some can kill you. Methods of preventing STD's, gotta know'em, gotta use'm for them to work Birth Control is next. The goofy remedies such as douching with coca cola, saran wrap, crap like that does NOT work.

If you want a great book that covers all this and so much more
Get:

Changing Bodies, Changing Lives: Expanded Third Edition: A Book for Teens on Sex and Relationships by Ruth Bell

and there's also the book that started this book: Our Bodies, Ourselves. They also have on online website you can use as a guide and resource,

These books do not speak down to you like you're a kid, but as a teen growing closer to womanhood as you grow and learn.

I'm not sure for the reason for your original question, but I hope this helped a bit.

Answer 3

By the time I was 14, I had alot of experience with one boy...my first boyfriend..but it wasn't by choice. After he and I broke up, I figured it didn't really matter what I did, because my virginity was already gone. Now I'm engaged and I wish he was the first guy I had chosen to be with. (No, I'm not looking for pity or anything, I swear I have a point! :) ) All I'm saying is make sure whoever you're doing whatever with is someone you trust, not only to be safe but with the emotions that go along with it. Everyone's at a different maturity level, so there's no saying what you are ready for, but just be careful. (And have fun :) )

Answer 4

At 14 boys should be the last thing on your mind.

You only have 3 to 4 years to do good in school and get a scholarship to a good college. Boys will only turn you into a poor waitress, or worse. Most boys do not care whether you succeed in life, and you should avoid them.

Answer 5

I CAN ANSWER THAT QUESTION! I'm fifteen and I know a great deal about boys. The farthest I went with a boy was making out. I wouldn't go farther *cough* sex...because alot of things can happen that you might not have known could happen. There is no such thing as safe sex. So how about taking it to kissing and that's it.

Keep Ur Head ^ !

Answer 6

boys at 14 wont have long relationships they havent seen much of the world yet. they always go out with a girl then after awhile they get bored of it and meet a sexier girl :) you can have fun but dont go too far ahead or you will regret it. good luck

Answer 7

I didn't go anywhere with boys when I was 14.

Answer 8

I totally noticed boys at that age but was far too busy having fun to hook up with anyone and get that serious.

Answer 9

14 was a long time ago for me and things were diffrent back then. i let guys french kiss me and touch my boob with all my clothes on.
if you dont want to go too far is all up to you sweetie. with rageing hormones you let him go any further YOU will want more or you will be called a tease or... he will make up **** about you and give you a bad rep.

Answer 10

I had only kissed boys by this age. I had my first tongue kiss when I was twelve and it was disgusting. Neither one of us knew what we were doing. I didn't advance to second base or any further until I was 17.

Answer 11

I gave birth to an 8 pound baby at 14.Dont do it men will say anything and They do love you.They really do.Now.But see if they love that child.