im a 17 year old junior. ive received various comments about how hott i am. i havent had a relationship..not even for my first time.(i feel like a nerd or something) so yea, i tent to feel depressed because everyone around he has a girl exept me. i mean not that im going to kill myself but i really hate it. any good advice of how to start a relationship (long term not **** buddy lol) i keep asking myself if ill stay single all my life...
2007-01-11 13:21:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no you will not, i'm sure there is someone who already likes you and wants to be with you, you just need to be more outgoing towards girls. i think you should find one of these girls who have given you the comments and talk to one a little, ask her on a date, then take it from there. do not have sex for awhile, that way you are more likely to have a longer relationship
2007-01-11 13:26:52 · answer #1 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wont stay single forever and you dont need to worry about it. I learned a long time ago that you dont need to be with someone to make you happy. If you really want a girl friend do activities or sports that will place you around girls. You just need to get the guts to walk up to a girl and start talking...I know its hard but trust me. I am also 17 and if a guy came up to me I would be nice since I know its difficult to do. Good luck
2007-01-11 13:27:32 · answer #2 · answered by saraikyon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you hear all the time how hott u is i mean whats the hold up?? is u too shy to ask a girl out or somethin? Since you get all these comments about ya looks, you should kno once you ask a girl out she gone say yea, no need to feel depressed, just try have some confidence in ya self
2007-01-11 13:27:31 · answer #3 · answered by Steeler Nation: 6 Time Champs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo, i know how your feeling, even though im only 14, its in a way the same thing. My best friend/next-door neighbor is practically the most popular kid in school, but he hasn't had a relationship lasting more than a week. He's told me he's gonna wait for a while, and try for college when he feels more dedicated girls will pop up. Maybe you should try that, but if you dont agree with me, I'd say just find a girl u like hanging out with and in a way make it obvious u like her without telling her (aka. flirting.) Good luck!
2007-01-11 13:27:15 · answer #4 · answered by soccergod7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your motive seems a little odd. I thought you would want a relationship when you met somebody you really liked rather than to keep up with your buddies. Once you are out of high school it's a whole new world and your life will change. There's no rush.
2007-01-11 13:27:08 · answer #5 · answered by jhartmann21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you hear from people that your hot then you probably wont be single for the rest of your life because eventually some girl out there will want you and wont be able to live without you. You will find the right person one day. It doesn't matter if you find her or she finds you, one day you'll find the right girl just be patient. Time will tell.
2007-01-11 13:28:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got loads of time. I hope you're concentrating on developing twrd a career, and that you are trying to become a 24/7 blessing to those around you. You're too tough to quit. Patience and tolerance is tough, but hang in there. You'll look back on this and laugh someday. You're coming into the most exciting years of your life.
2007-01-11 13:27:29 · answer #7 · answered by Marmalade P. Vestibule III 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your prolly not going to stay single your whole life.......you just havent found the right girl. You will know when you find her there will be a connection =]
2007-01-11 13:25:03 · answer #8 · answered by crazyblondmonkey4eva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, ask yourself, are you not attracted to any girl at the moment? if not, then i dont see any reason for your to rush things out...
if you are attracted to a girl, pursue her...
you dont have to force yourself to have a girl just so to satisfy the people around you asking you why at your age you seem to not have a girl yet...concentrate on your studies coz i think you have a good future ahead of you coz you seem to think of your education more ... you are still young, you dont have to rush everything...
wait for your heart to beat for the right person and not bec. someone else's dictate you...
2007-01-11 13:27:34 · answer #9 · answered by fashion時尚嬰孩玩偶doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have the guts ask a girl out you can do it just be friends you dont have to go all the way on the first date dont be shy go for it
2007-01-11 13:25:52 · answer #10 · answered by kris b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋