Ok so my cousin dated this guy on and off for about a year, and I kinda liked him and we would flirt all the time.Well they ended up breaking up and we had this whole summer fling.Then my cousin found out and completely flipped, which she had the right too.We agreed to never do anything with each other ever again so she would be happy.So we went on with our lives and after a couple months we missed each other so we decided to hang out.Well that probably wasn't a good idea.Since then we continue to hook up and have sex.Then when in school he is all over other girls but I don't get jealous.I want to be with him so much but it just doesn't bother me.I often find myself ignoring him because it gets to him.He knows he makes me happy, but we don't want to commit, what is the best thing to do in this situation?
2007-01-11 13:20:08 · 18 answers · asked by Princess1124 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're cousin isn't pining over him, then she's over him. Unless he broke up with her...than that could be a touchy situation. However, if it was a mutual thing or even her doing that is what I would base it on. I guess I can understand why she flipped out, it may have been too soon then. However, now it's in the New Year and maybe it's behind her. Don't tell her about it; let things run their course with him. Perhaps, by the time she finds out again, you can say to her that you respect her, but he is not her boyfriend anymore and you both tried to stay away from each other. But in the end, it's what you and him both wanted. How could she say no to your happiness?! Then again, things run their course and you don't last with him, she never really needs to know. Save that one for a rainy day. Unless they were married, I think the guy is fair game. It'll take some getting used to on her part, but I think in the end if she sees that you're both happy then that should be good enough.
2007-01-11 13:31:18 · answer #1 · answered by daff73 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong about yr Jealousy...It is a birth right to be like that...UR DNA has it as like for other girls...But be cautious while having sex with Him...Ask/insist to have candoms on his thing...U can try out for variety of Guys also...It is Buzzling Modern Indian Youth...Who can stop from all these acts? If some thing goes wrong also..they R abortin clinics every where at musc afforadable cost...Enjoy life....U will never get this opportunity...But do not confess to yr real husband once U get marry later as it will ruin yr Personal career and UR future of yr siblings...Or U do not Get marry at all...what is the need...as one of my unmarried senior friend always says...When U get Milk in openmarket freely...why to Buy a Cow and get into troubles????
2007-01-11 15:20:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you both need to move on, for both your sakes. This relationship isn't going to work out, there are just too many factors in the way. In time, you WILL find someone else. And it sounds to me like you have a lot more loyalty to him than he would ever give you. If you're not interested in being in a relationship and just want to be friends with benefits, that's up to you. But don't think that by having sex with him he's going to give you a relationship. If you want a relationship, then having sex with him is only going to hurt you. If you don't want a relationship, then I don't see a problem with you two being friends with benefits, as long as you know that that's all you are. Hope I helped :)
2007-01-11 13:33:27 · answer #3 · answered by Carolinii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 00:48:44 · answer #4 · answered by vishvanath 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both really love eachother then you should be together. Ask ur cousin if she still minda and tell her that u really love him! Hopefully she will understand! If u are both fine w just being friends with benifits then thats fine too! just dont fool urself into thinking that ur fine w/ it wen u really want him just for urself! That will only lead to more heart break! =(
2007-01-11 13:27:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it off. You guys are just sex buddies. If that appeals to you, ok. But remember you are hurting your cousin. And blood is thicker than water.
2007-01-11 13:24:57 · answer #6 · answered by Sharyn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm well maybe you are afraid to give yourself emotionally to him or something. If the girls hanging on him does not bother you maybe you are very confident or its just sex and friendship to you. It is a strange situation.
2007-01-11 13:25:28 · answer #7 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow arent you a precious one? The best thing to do is get your tubes tied so you dont pass off your careless and heartless behavior to a daughter...
2007-01-11 13:23:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Karma's a *****!! you should feel bad cuz you know you had know right to mess with your cousins man..Thats exactly what you get
2007-01-13 13:11:08 · answer #9 · answered by kiki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever considered keeping your word to your cousin?
2007-01-11 13:28:57 · answer #10 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋