its seems like girls become really loyal to boyfriends... but its like a switch that turns on once they start to date... is this something that just happens or can you see it before you ask a girl out?
2007-01-11 13:19:23 · 14 answers · asked by trigger-man 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i didn't have much feelings for the guy i'm dating until we had been on a couple of dates. then it hit me-i didn't even realize how (incredibly) good looking he was either until then, i just thought, he was just another guy. when i did realize all of this though, i was like "whoa, i'm one lucky girl!"
2007-01-11 13:25:10 · answer #1 · answered by *MaE* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a girl I understand what you mean. When I first started dating my current boyfriend I thought of him as a really good friend, but as we started to spend more time togther my feelings for him began to grow stronger. I absolutely love my boyfriend to death and in my case it just took time. Time is very important in a relationship..... when you want it to last.
2007-01-11 21:24:50 · answer #2 · answered by juniorpoet12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends how the guy acts befroe, but in my case, usually I feel it before and then people start to notice. Girls are very subtle like that.
2007-01-11 21:24:40 · answer #3 · answered by Abby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, if they're looking for a short term lover, the yes/no is answered within the first 5 min of contact. However if they're looking for a life partner, it takes much longer.
2007-01-11 21:28:45 · answer #4 · answered by Cory W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is in everyones best intereset that the girl has feelings first, otherwise it is like she is settling for what she has, and in the end it will turn bad for everyone, because then she will realize what it is she REALLY wants out of a relationship
2007-01-11 21:23:21 · answer #5 · answered by kristina43 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my own experience, both of those scenario's have worked in my case, I guess there is no sure way to tell.
2007-01-11 21:22:30 · answer #6 · answered by Layla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a girl but was unsure, I grew to love her madly until it was revealed she used to me to get to my bestfriend.
2007-01-11 21:21:50 · answer #7 · answered by Cyrax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
naw you can have feeling later...it all depends....you can get them any times...but if you don;t like him from the start..its hard to like him later.....sometimes you just cant change the way you feel about somebody,...
2007-01-11 21:23:26 · answer #8 · answered by hatchetmistress 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, sometimes when i date i don't have like really strong feelings to the guy, i develop them, while the relationship goes on.............
2007-01-11 21:30:00 · answer #9 · answered by Davi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um they would have to have some feelings to start out but its natural for them to get more intense...
2007-01-11 21:22:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋