from liking a non popular girl? I hate how you know a guy likes you but they wont go near you because your not popular. I am very out-going, sportive, funny and i used have friends with the 'popular girls' then I realized they are selfish bit*hes and became friends with the social outcasts, the outgoing bad *** ones. Now im not a bad *** drugee or anything, I am actually very religious, but I want to know what is up with guys who always stare at me as if there is no tomorrow but refuse to talk to ask me out. This is so hypocritical of me but I fell for one of those guys, is there any way to get him to like me without having to change myself and be 'popular' again. Or is it just because my outgoing non popular personality is intimidating? Or the whole religion part
2007-01-11 13:17:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, from my experience, it's not dat u r not popular dat the guys do not make da move. The guys are actually shy. i've seen guys who are law students n good in debating etc but they became shy n speechless when they are with da girls they like. It takes them a lot of courage to walk up to the girls they like and say Hi. They are shy n nervous, u see. Since u know they like u, why not "create"a chance for them. Let's say, if the guy is standing nearby u, jus go up to him and say "Hi, how r u? where r u going?" You don't have to change yourself but jus acknowledge dat u have make sum effort to let the guy know u r interested. Sometimes the guy feel insecure, scared to be hurt, so they seldom make the move until they are very sure dat u like him very much and won't reject him. Jus take it easy. Start from building up the conversation and be good friends. From there see how it goes. When the guy feels comfortable n not so shy talking to u, he wil ask u out. It takes time though. A good relationship is depends on how u value each other. Be aware dat to have a successful relationship takes effort and time. It's not so simple like da movies
2007-01-11 13:37:45 · answer #1 · answered by libby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously these guys are superficial. A true romance happens in spite of what their friends think. Go on with life and meet someone who is not ashamed to be with you. These guys may be pretty to look at but their souls are damned ugly.
2007-01-11 13:22:23 · answer #2 · answered by queenmaeve172000 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
particular,he thinks that he's the only actor skipped over in this finished international.he's loosing allure no longer purely because of the fact of his arrogance,yet even because of the fact he s relatively previous.His face allure has purely approximately long previous.
2016-10-07 00:48:39 · answer #3 · answered by vishvanath 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. I'm freaking hot but I'm a total loner and popular (or just self concious) guys act like such cowards, I wind up getting turned off by their lack of backbone. IDK i'd rather have a guy who thinks for himself.
2007-01-11 13:22:24 · answer #4 · answered by evilive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is short, so don't hesitate, you need the right person so that you can live with that person love a life time.
2007-01-11 13:25:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget them - they're usually clods. Build your life, become successful and stand for a noble cause (a non-liberal one, in other words).
2007-01-11 13:20:14 · answer #6 · answered by Joe C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hang out with anyone, everyone wants somebody hot, it's natural I guess.
2007-01-11 13:20:45 · answer #7 · answered by Cyrax 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be yourself and do not worry about what others think.
Good Luck
2007-01-11 13:23:11 · answer #8 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its popularity. highschool is a b**** and thats just how it rolls. plus, i know its cliche, but wait for the guy who doesnt care how popular you are, he just likes you for you.
2007-01-11 13:21:06 · answer #9 · answered by listener 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
save your self for the one who deserves you.
2007-01-11 13:20:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋