i am pretty and my frineds say i am really funny and easy to talk to, around guys i dont open up as easily but still how do i open up more so they get to know me??
2007-01-11 13:08:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You open up more when you are comfortable. Try doing something you like to do and that you know the guy you like likes to do. If there is no talking dont worry about it. Guys get as nervous as girls when talking to someone they like. Just start of slowly with things like how is school going, sports, the weather etc. You may find that you have stuff in common and more to talk about. Just dont go into your past relationships at the start. Just basic get to know you questions. Or if you open up around your friends go out as a group and you can talk to them when you cant think of anything to say to him. He may be just as quiet.
2007-01-11 13:15:21 · answer #1 · answered by kyle13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're talking to them act like you're talking to one of your good friends. Don't try to act any differently than you would with your friends. Be yourself. I know everyone says that, but it's because it's true. If you're putting up an act to get a guy's attention, they're gonna see the real you eventually, and then it'll all come crashing down (trust me, i know). So be yourself, and approach guys with confidence. You sound like a great girl, so you should have all the confidence in the world talking to guys :).
2007-01-11 13:16:56 · answer #2 · answered by Carolinii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk about whatever you like.
As a guy, I'll let you in a secret. About 75% of the time we have little to no interest in what girls are talking about when they talk to us. But we know girls love to talk and that they like guys who listen, so we stand there, nodding our heads, occasionally saying something, letting you talk on and on about something that may not interest us in the least. Bottom line is, just talk to a guy you like about whatever. If a guy likes you, he'll listen to what you have to say, and talk back or steer the conversation in a way that leads to you two getting together.
2007-01-11 13:13:37 · answer #3 · answered by red_necksuck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was really shy like that too until i waitressed, i became more comfortable around strangers and now i can freely talk to anyone. If you're not willing to adopt a new job to learn people skills, i would start by talking to guys you're not interested in, you'll feel more comfortable around them, and maybe learn to open up around guys you really like
2007-01-11 13:12:55 · answer #4 · answered by bird5196 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of guys out there that you haven't even met yet so you can't assume that guys don't like you. You just haven't found the right guy yet and don't pick the one lurking in the shadows either. Good relationships are hard to come by, you just have to find one.
2007-01-11 13:16:38 · answer #5 · answered by Aaron P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they are intimidated by you!
The best way to be yourself and open up is to not care what people think about you. it sounds simple but its true. Convince yourself that you will act just yourself and not care how it is perceived and really mean it and see what happens.
2007-01-11 13:13:57 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. CoCo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u need 2 sorta relax. it seems that u r tense around guys causin u 2 not talk as much. and who knows maybe sumbody duz like u but htey just wont admit it. believe me ive been thru that and l8r found out that a few guys liked me. just relax and be urself. guys will come running...
2007-01-11 13:12:15 · answer #7 · answered by anonymous 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im a guy they are scared around hot girls it takes them a min. to get the courage by that time there gone [take it from me]P.S. Nice Avatar=]
2007-01-11 13:12:45 · answer #8 · answered by SirNovajr. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same prob here!!!! but what u do is u walk by them what i used to do is wait for them to notice me.....uhhhh not tooo great. btu just talk to them, say hi. i dont really knooooww. sorry but thats my advice
2007-01-11 13:12:32 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Answer Gurl♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and talk to them.
Good Luck
2007-01-11 13:11:29 · answer #10 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋